# Claudia and Miguel argue over grief and Mateo’s memorial Mass - Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2115848626278945096 - Source account: [@OficialRp7](https://x.com/OficialRp7) - Source language: Spanish - Target language: English - Duration: 2:39 - Published: 2026-10-29 - Machine translated. Check the original before quoting. - Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass - Original-language version: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/es/claudia-y-miguel-discuten-sobre-el-duelo-y-la-misa-por-mateo.md ## Transcript [0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass) Something, Doña Elvira? Oh, uh, you thought it was the, the customer who just left. [0:06](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=6) Well, no. How was the, the cemetery? Sorry, I came to cheer you up, and I started off badly. [0:14](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=14) No. No, no, Miguel. Everything's fine, the cemetery's fine. [0:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=19) Hey, why don't we go to the movies? To the movies? [0:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=21) Yes. If you're distracted by something interesting, you won't think about what you shouldn't think about. Besides, there are many studies that discuss the power of distraction to prevent episodes of melancholy after a traumatic experience. [0:32](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=32) It's not that I don't want you to think about it, but it'll do you good to keep your mind occupied with something else. [0:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=36) I understood you from the start, Miguel. [0:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=37) So? Of course, you choose the movie. Uh, you see, I don't, I don't really feel like going to the movies. [0:47](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=47) What if we go eat at, at Zoco Dover? A patient told me that they've opened a new Galician restaurant, and you love empanadas. [0:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=56) It's just that I'm meeting the nun who's going to help us for lunch this afternoon at the maternity home. [1:01](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=61) Well, when I say lunch, I mean dinner. Look, Miguel, darling, I... [1:06](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=66) I really appreciate you making this effort to, to cheer me up, but I'd rather not do anything big today. [1:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=73) Of course. [1:24](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=84) But, Miguel, if, if you want, you can come with me to the anniversary Mass for Mateo's death. [1:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=93) Well, it's not about what I want, but what you want. [1:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=97) Well, if I'm asking you, it must be because I want you to come with me, right? [1:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=101) You're asking me for the, for the reason you're asking me. [1:43](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=103) And why am I asking you, if I may ask? Out of obligation. [1:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=106) Out of obligation to what? Claudia, it's obvious. [1:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=109) What's obvious, Miguel? Well, yesterday you told me you wanted to go to the cemetery alone, and today you're rejecting everything I suggest. [1:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=116) So what? Well, you saw that I was feeling a little sad, and you felt obligated to invite me to the mass. [2:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=123) No, Miguel. And I don't think it's right that you mix apples and oranges, because not wanting you to come with me to the cemetery has nothing to do with not wanting you to come with me to the mass. [2:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=131) Well, I don't see the difference. Well, there is one. [2:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=133) Well then, please explain it to me, Claudia. [2:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=135) I want to help you, but to do that, I have to understand you. [2:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=137) I know, but you can't understand me, Miguel, because you haven't been through what I've been through. [2:20](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=140) But that's what you're here for, to try to make me understand it and to explain it to me. [2:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=143) Look, I just don't have patience right now, Miguel. [2:25](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=145) So please, I'm asking you not to overwhelm me anymore. [2:27](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=147) But have I overwhelmed you? When have I overwhelmed you? [2:29](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=149) You can't say that and just walk away. Miguel, can't we talk about this some other time? [2:32](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=152) I don't want to talk about anything right now. [2:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6J6VoGEUEiVf/en/claudia-and-miguel-argue-over-grief-and-mateo-s-memorial-mass?t=154) So, am I going to Mass or not? Claudia. Claudia!