# Leaving an Abusive Relationship: Encouragement for Mothers

- Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2112710037605150739
- Source account: [@GzzUp\_](https://x.com/GzzUp_)
- Source language: English
- Duration: 1:36
- Published: 2026-10-21
- Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers

## Transcript

[0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers) side of the congregation, but you are ready to be a single mother.

[0:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=3) It's okay. You're ready to leave that man. You're ready to have your kids in a peaceful environment. You're ready to have your peace. You are ready.

[0:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=11) Your kids are not going to resent you. Your kids are not going to hate you.

[0:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=15) Your kids are going to appreciate you for taking them out of a chaotic environment.

[0:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=19) No matter what that man is telling you to get you to doubt yourself, you are strong enough to do it by yourself. I know it's disheartening when the family that you had envisioned in your mind did not work out, but that's okay, 'cause at the end of the day, you can create a new family with someone that's actually going to

[0:32](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=32) appreciate you and love you and value you.

[0:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=36) But in order for you to get to that point, you have to leave.

[0:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=40) I know it is so much harder said than done, but six months from now, a year from now, two years from now, you're gonna be in such a better place.

[0:47](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=47) You're going to be so proud of yourself and not only you, but your kids.

[0:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=50) Your kids are going to be so proud of you.

[0:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=52) Your happiness is ultimately your kids' happiness, and if your happiness is you by yourself, then do that for you and your kids.

[0:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=59) If no one else tells you this, you're gonna hear it from me: You got this, for you and your kids. Your kids deserve to come home and not have to worry about if mommy and daddy are arguing again.

[1:09](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=69) Do not worry about other people's opinions. Do not worry about judgments.

[1:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=73) At the end of the day, judgments are not paying your bills.

[1:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=75) If you're a bitter baby mama, then so what?

[1:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=77) At least your kids know that you're a good mom, and that's what matters.

[1:20](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=80) Who cares about what other people have to say?

[1:22](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/6NMaqy25duWM/en/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-encouragement-for-mothers?t=82) Especially a man that's been emotionally, physically, mentally abusing you, who cares what he has to say? Do what's best for your mental health, your peace, and your kids. I promise your kids will thank you later, I promise.