# Fear of a Rebound and the Choice Not to Start a Relationship

- Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/1894334646126617073
- Source account: [@javierdarking](https://x.com/javierdarking)
- Source language: Italian
- Target language: English
- Duration: 0:45
- Published: 2026-10-30
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- Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship
- Original-language version: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/it/la-paura-di-un-ripiego-e-la-scelta-di-non-iniziare-una-relazione.md

## Transcript

[0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship) Not selfish, but more caring toward myself, because in that moment, I thought about your well-being, Elena's well-being, because she was furious, furious, and yours, because I couldn't start I mean, I liked— I mean, I liked you so much at that moment, but I couldn't start something with you because I was afraid that, as things went on,

[0:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship?t=19) just as an immense love could blossom, it could also turn into a load of crap, maybe I took it as a fallback for that thing, okay? Because I felt a lot. So I said, you know what?

[0:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship?t=30) I'm getting out of this, enough. I want to think about my own well-being.

[0:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship?t=33) And then, no— I mean, I thought that was my well-being, you know, at that moment. But why?

[0:39](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/7faY57aQU9Io/en/fear-of-a-rebound-and-the-choice-not-to-start-a-relationship?t=39) Because the two people I had feelings for were doing well, you know?