# Interracial Relationships and African Identity: A Debate on Respect for Black Women

- Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2106858982635626902
- Source account: [@bantuoriginel](https://x.com/bantuoriginel)
- Source language: French
- Target language: English
- Duration: 9:59
- Published: 2026-10-06
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- Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black
- Original-language version: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/fr/couples-mixtes-et-identit%C3%A9-africaine-un-d%C3%A9bat-sur-le-respect-des-femmes-noires.md

## Transcript

[0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black) Now, to, to, to, to excuse him, given the comments I made, he brought me up, he's got balls.

[0:08](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=8) He's not a hypocrite because he could easily have avoided me and not brought me up. So, not to— for the 8,000 pe— the 8,000 people who are here, I keep telling him: “You're a major traitor to Black women.”

[0:20](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=20) Basically, that it's shameful. Why isn't the girl next to you African?

[0:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=23) He could have pretended and not brought me up.

[0:26](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=26) He brought me up, so he's still got some balls, get in the closet.

[0:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=30) But that's not it. I'm telling you, I'm telling you, you'll regret it.

[0:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=34) You'll regret it, even if it's not at— even if it's not at 40, even if it's not at 45, you'll regret your mistake.

[0:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=40) Because an African man can't— put anything above an African woman. And you'll understand it in the prime of life, and you'll understand and you'll understand your mistake.

[0:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=50) Here, here— They put me— No, no. And then, and then after that, that's enough.

[0:53](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=53) Because I, have no desire to talk to you.

[0:55](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=55) I'm telling you, I'm telling you, when you reach the prime of life, when women, sexuality, physical beauty, are behind you, when you reconnec-reconnect very strongly with what the African woman is, you will regret humiliating us like that. I'm telling you.

[1:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=72) Because a man who does more for a neighbor he doesn't know than for his mother will regret hurting his mother. I'm telling you.

[1:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=79) Here, here, what you're doing is spitting.

[1:22](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=82) As a Black woman, to me, it's like being spat on.

[1:24](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=84) It’s— it means that when you, you spit in my face.

[1:27](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=87) Just by showing up with that girl, of all the women, you, you’re not capable of choosing an African woman? On my mother’s life!

[1:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=93) You’re pieces of shit. You’re pieces of shit.

[1:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=97) So use me, that’s fine. Use me to promote yourself, create buzz, but you’re only tarnishing yourself.

[1:44](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=104) How am I using you? Anyway, in any case, Me, I’m telling you, you can say whatever you want.

[1:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=112) He saw me come in, he saw my face. I’m not jealous or insecure.

[1:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=116) I have my assets, that’s it, there’s no problem. I’m neither ugly, nor this, nor that.

[2:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=120) There. But we’re going to talk because me, you know what?

[2:04](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=124) I can allow myself to speak because when I enter a room, people respect me. I'm not ugly.

[2:10](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=130) Maybe you think I'm a Black woman, so I'm ugly.

[2:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=132) I'm not ugly. And no, and I, and so I speak. And so I, I can allow myself because I'm not ugly. And I, I allow myself because there are too many women who say...

[2:22](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=142) There are many women who say: "It's fine if he gets with other women as long as he doesn't disparage us." No, it's a problem when you get with other women.

[2:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=150) That's where the disrespect begins. If you're really African, if you really love Africa, if you love your mother and Black women, then there's nothing better than a Black woman, why do you go Go get with a woman who's not African?

[2:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=161) If you really love African women, why go eat vanilla if you love chocolate? If you love chocolate, you choose chocolate. It means you don't.

[2:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=170) So that's already disrespectful. Work on yourself.

[2:54](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=174) You're way off, way off the mark. I'm telling you.

[2:57](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=177) You're very far off the mark. Do you like chocolate or vanilla?

[3:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=183) Anyway, you know— What's your name? What's your name?

[3:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=187) My name is what's written. Uh, your name is Gardi?

[3:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=192) Yeah, my name is Gardi, yeah. So, the chocolate and vanilla example.

[3:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=195) It's not because you eat chocolate that you don't like vanilla.

[3:16](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=196) It's not because you eat vanilla that you don't like chocolate or that you put down chocolate.

[3:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=201) A man, listen carefully to what I'm going to tell you.

[3:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=203) To know what's in a man's mindset, you have to look at the wo- the woman he puts beside him. A man, he can tell you all day that he, likes this. You have to see what he feels like fucking.

[3:35](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=215) To know what a man likes, a man doesn't get up to go fuck something he doesn't like.

[3:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=220) You brought her back, her. And why are you going… You've, you've got money, you've got everything.

[3:43](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=223) Why would you deny yourself? It's because it's, it's because that's what you want. And that's what you want because you haven't fully reshaped yourself.

[3:51](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=231) You've got a lot of things, but you're missing the essential.

[3:53](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=233) I'm telling you, my friend. I don't see why she's here. There, you're going straight into stories— No, but whatever, whatever. Anyway, people...

[4:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=240) In any case, whatever happens, uh, I am not going to act like that, putting myself out there on social media like that.

[4:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=247) Don't you have African female friends, don't you, don't you, aren't there any girls from Africa who can come to Dubai with you?

[4:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=251) It's always about letting others benefit, being a bodyguard for others, taking weekends for others, making meals for others and for others.

[4:18](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=258) And for others. But fuck, we are dying of depression.

[4:20](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=260) We are... What you're doing, what you're doing, is holding Black women back.

[4:24](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=264) Hello, hello, hello, hello, enough, you've been talking too much for a while now.

[4:26](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=266) You're going after the wrong Black people to come and say all that. Basically, you're coming to tell me, you picked me to... come and tell me all that.

[4:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=276) Do you think that makes sense?

[4:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=281) Hello? Yes, I'm listening. Because you, oh yeah, because in your everyday life, you choose Black women, is that what you want to tell me? And that, is just buzz.

[4:51](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=291) But first, you see, right now, it's the first time th— since you went live that you've let me speak, to begin with.

[4:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=296) Now, there are a lot of things in what you said that are true, but there are other things, you're being extreme.

[5:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=300) For example, when you say that to you, it's an insult for a Black man to...

[5:04](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=304) First, I'm going to ex-explain something: I'm not married to her.

[5:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=307) And even if tomorrow, I want to marry her, I'll marry her.

[5:10](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=310) But right now, I'm not married to her. She's just here for now.

[5:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=313) Now, you're taking this way too far. That's point one.

[5:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=315) Point two, how is someone who doesn't choose, uh, like you said, chocolate and who and who, and who, uh, and who chooses vanilla, if they don't put down chocolate, how is that discriminatory? Point one.

[5:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=328) Point two, you were talking about my tastes. You assume I don't like Black women. How do you know?

[5:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=333) Because if you liked that, you'd be with a Black woman.

[5:35](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=335) End of story. All the time, 200% of the time.

[5:39](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=339) And if I tell you, if I tell you: "Less than a month ago, I was with a Black woman," what would you say to me then?

[5:44](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=344) Well, I'd say you've regressed, then.

[5:48](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=348) No, but we agree that now, you're taking this too far.

[5:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=350) No, I answered you. I told you, if— In your view, I shouldn't date, in your view, I shouldn't date any woman other than a Black woman. First of all. And secondly, who told you Black women like me? I mean, you accuse me, you tell me, "Yeah, you could set an example," etc. Who told you Black women like me?

[6:04](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=364) You already assume that I'm the one rejecting them.

[6:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=367) If you do, tell me that it's me. Wait, there are 12,000 people, there are, there are 12,000 people, there are 12 000 people. You're going to make me believe that in the little ad you made, the campaign you made, there wasn't a Black woman.

[6:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=377) Even I, I think I appeared once, and at one point, I saw that you were talking to a mixed-race, Black girl and all, and I said, "Oh, that's Okay, you saw, he's not a big asshole, you know. And I moved on. I swiped.

[6:29](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=389) And you see there, you saw, I didn't want to cut there, you know.

[6:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=394) Stop it, stop it. When you saw my— Hey, let me tell you something. Hey, I swear on my mother's life, on my own life.

[6:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=400) Stop feeding us this crap with... Oh, it's you."

[6:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=406) No, wait, please. And then— no, and then I'm going to respond to the, the, the thing people were saying in the comments: "She's jealous."

[6:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=412) Well, of course, I'm so jealous. You sons of bitches, I'm a very beautiful African woman.

[6:57](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=417) We see very handsome African men fucking anything.

[6:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=419) Like, I'm so jealous. Because at a party, don't worry, I get noticed.

[7:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=423) And don't worry, when I pound her from behind, even if I'm not interested in him at all. Her, she was all dolled up, like...

[7:09](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=429) But there you go, we're on social media, we can, we can't do anything.

[7:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=432) So don't start giving us shit, acting tough, like...

[7:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=435) But of course we're jealous. You can be the hottest girl in the whole world.

[7:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=441) If your guy's rummaging through the trash to hit on a girl, you're going to be jealous.

[7:25](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=445) It's not a lack of self-respect to be jealous, it's healthy.

[7:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=448) You see what I mean? It's human. On my mother's life, on my life.

[7:32](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=452) You see a Senegalese guy making money, living in Senegal, getting around a bit.

[7:35](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=455) What did Gold put on his head? That. But on my mother's life, I'm stopping. I've got other things to do.

[7:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=461) Me, I come out of my workout. Now, my dopamine is fucked.

[7:44](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=464) I have to start over. So, let me give you, actually, let me give you a tip.

[7:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=469) Stop starting, stop feeding us bullshit, putting a stick up our asses to tell us, “Oh, no, it’s us, we love you.”

[7:54](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=474) Who told you we didn’t love you? And then afterwards, you show yourselves with other people.

[7:58](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=478) On my mother’s life. Me, I— me, I’m always with a Black man— She didn’t speak, uh, Gardin, she didn’t speak.

[8:05](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=485) Me, I didn’t say that, I didn’t say that women, Black women, loved me or not. I told you, “Don’t talk too fast,” first of all, because you don’t know the context. You don’t know why. You’ve never se— first of all, you’ve never seen me with a Black woman. That doesn't mean I don't date Black women.

[8:14](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=494) That's what you've never seen me do. Wait, let me finish, let me finish.

[8:16](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=496) And secondly, basically, you're mixing everything up.

[8:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=499) So to you, since I'm a guy on social media who people watch, etc., I absolutely have to end up with a Black wo-, a Black woman. That's— Yes, yes. If you're not the one doing it, then who is? I understand, I understand.

[8:32](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=512) Who's going to take the Senegalese woman if not you?

[8:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=514) A Turk? A Chinese person? Indian people?

[8:38](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=518) Wake up, get your head out of your ass. If you want your son to be Black, to be Senegalese, to pass it on.

[8:44](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=524) Because that's what passing it on is. Passing it on is...

[8:47](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=527) Because, because for, to have a Black family, you have to go through a Black woman's womb. That's the secret.

[8:53](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=533) The thing is, there is no secret. If you go through a white woman's womb, you will have a white family. So if you want to…

[8:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=539) That means, you, that means we're Black all the way back, back 5,000 years from Kou's time to your very Black outings.

[9:06](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=546) Well then, come on, let's go out together.

[9:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=547) Are you the one who's going to come and smash everything up?

[9:09](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=549) Just because, I don't know, uh, I don't know, you got up on the wrong side of the bed.

[9:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=552) Hey, go fuck yourselves, actually. Well, come on, let's go out together.

[9:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=557) Well, no, I can't, I'm taken, you know. Well, dump your boyfriend and let's go out together.

[9:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=563) No, because actually, my boyfriend, he's exclusively into Black women, you see, he's not going to disrespect me, because I’m not getting with you so afterward you can tell me “Oh, that’s it, you did… Oh, you see?” No, because you know what?

[9:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=573) I understood what you just told me. I understood what you just told me. Now, I want to go out with you.

[9:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=576) So come on, let’s go out together. No, but I’m taken, but that doesn’t stop me, it doesn’t stop me from giving you a beating because maybe you saw that you put…

[9:44](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=584) No, but— You opened my eyes. You opened my ey— No, listen to me.

[9:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=586) You opened my eyes. Hey, stop it. We’re going to cross certain lines.

[9:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=589) I’m getting to a certain age— Wait, wait, please. I’m not one of your social media girls.

[9:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/C8pBv3XY72B3/en/interracial-relationships-and-african-identity-a-debate-on-respect-for-black?t=592) I’m here to remind you. Uh, me, I like you because you—