# Marriage, Children and Work: Intrusive Questions in Church

- Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2119597413640147327
- Source account: [@FreedToLive22](https://x.com/FreedToLive22)
- Source language: Malayalam
- Target language: English
- Duration: 1:31
- Published: 2026-11-09
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- Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church
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## Transcript

[0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church) I’ve been married for three years, and I still haven’t consummated it.

[0:02](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=2) Your marital status is the same as mine.

[0:04](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=4) Whether I do it or not, can anyone look me in the face and ask if there’s some problem?

[0:08](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=8) I’ll answer, but since it’s not canonical, I can’t say it here.

[0:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=15) Recently in Indonesia, a young man beat someone to death.

[0:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=19) Because wherever he went, they’d ask, “Are you married?”

[0:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=21) So he went home, took a pestle each time, brought them over, and killed them all in one week.

[0:24](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=24) I think if you put a pestle beside every bench in the church, you’d get a lot of inner healing.

[0:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=28) Don’t take this as a call to commit murder.

[0:31](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=31) Divorced people don’t want to say it or remember it.

[0:35](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=35) Those without children, you have a whole list of gynecologists in some service groups.

[0:38](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=38) They go around with that. They’ve even asked me if I want one.

[0:43](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=43) For someone without a job, it’s all, “Don’t you have a job?

[0:45](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=45) Aren’t you married? Don’t you have kids?”

[0:47](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=47) “Aren’t you married?” What a lot of awkward questions. I know, Velaykkitti.

[0:51](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=51) Because they don’t want to remember any of this, talk about it, or discuss it.

[0:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=56) They come to a place where they won’t be asked or told any of this, and won’t have to talk about it, seeking inner healing.

[1:02](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=62) Dear listeners, at least some of the young people don’t come to church.

[1:05](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=65) Our endless… Even Isaac Newton didn’t have this many questions.

[1:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=71) I’ve been thinking I should go see that Indonesian, if the church allows it.

[1:14](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=74) We should buy one of those pestles and bring it here too.

[1:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=77) As Kalpetta Mash says in one of his poems, the stranger who held me up when I fell, doesn’t that dispel my doubts?

[1:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/bXGwmLaeJKRj/en/marriage-children-and-work-intrusive-questions-in-church?t=83) Seek inner peace and healing Divorcees, those without children, those facing family problems through no fault of their own, the unemployed