# Toxic Relationships, Therapy and Personal Growth - Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2116890049010602336 - Source account: [@mascos69](https://x.com/mascos69) - Source language: Italian - Target language: English - Duration: 3:09 - Published: 2026-11-01 - Machine translated. Check the original before quoting. - Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth - Original-language version: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/it/relazioni-tossiche-terapia-e-crescita-personale.md ## Transcript [0:00](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth) Good morning. Nice in the singular because— Oh, I love them to death. [0:06](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=6) No, you won't find bread for your teeth today. Andrea. [0:10](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=10) Oh my God, how lovely. Don't you want to work out, Marina? [0:14](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=14) Anyway, it feels so good to feel important to people. [0:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=19) Right, that caress, that— No, but also feeling that someone cares about you. [0:22](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=22) They care about you. It's so wonderful, babe. I— I mean, I realize I've always looked for it in relationships with men, this security, this good morning, how are you, this someone taking care of me. [0:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=37) Hi, chick. That's why I'm super— because I said no, I have to learn to do it on my own, because otherwise you end up accepting anyone in front of you just to have someone who— Yeah, because sometimes it's like you idealize the person in front of you for a— Same here. [0:51](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=51) One of your— To fill that— To fill that, that void. [0:54](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=54) Yes. That's how it often happens. Yes, but since when you're this age, you still don't have the clarity to say this person is right, this person is wrong because, after all, you don't know yourself yet. I'm still developing. [1:10](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=70) And, well, you keep developing constantly. [1:12](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=72) Exactly, there isn't an age, it's a continuous evolution. [1:14](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=74) I made myself a promise and said, no, Megan, enough with relatio— even toxic relationships. Now a year— I've been in therapy for a year and a half now, really deep, and... [1:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=90) It's because you, you— in life, you have to put— you reach a point where you put the pieces together. [1:38](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=98) You put— I mean, yes, it's like a puzzle. I mean, I, I see it as if it were like a, a puzzle that you, uh, that you've already made. [1:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=109) But you don't understand how it's possible. [1:51](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=111) So at some point, you have to put it all back together and put it back piece by piece and fit everything back together and understand why every piece goes there. And it's excruciating— And only then can you find a solution. [2:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=123) Understand why, because you understand everything, understand why your mom did that, why your dad did that, why you felt that way. [2:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=133) And why I still, I still feel that way in many situations. [2:16](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=136) Right. In many relationships. In fact, it’s tough. [2:23](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=143) Well, it’s a tough thing anyway. Really tough. [2:25](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=145) But… But it’s necessary. It’s necessary. [2:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=148) But I swear to you, I’m not saying this as a psychologist. [2:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=150) I had an experience, well, oh God, in, in my relationships that, well, there can… [2:33](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=153) be someone who loves you less, someone who doesn’t get through to you. [2:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=156) I had one that completely destroyed me. Yeah? [2:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=160) A relationship? How long did it last? [2:45](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=165) Too long for the pain it caused me. Yeah, it destroyed me. [2:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=170) Why? Because one day, this person he— completely changed. [2:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=179) Toward you? Yeah, and he became aggressive. [3:02](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/horfG5B4bDK2/en/toxic-relationships-therapy-and-personal-growth?t=182) Was he officially certified... No, which I didn't, didn't know.