# Clearing Up the Coffee Clip With Ale and Fears About the Future

- Original post: https://www.twitter.com/i/status/2116534074835705993
- Source account: [@mascos69](https://x.com/mascos69)
- Source language: Italian
- Target language: English
- Duration: 7:31
- Published: 2026-10-31
- Machine translated. Check the original before quoting.
- Canonical URL: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future
- Original-language version: https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/it/il-chiarimento-con-ale-sulla-clip-del-caff%C3%A8-e-le-paure-per-il-futuro.md

## Transcript

[0:02](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=2) Oh, I had a feeling about this with you.

[0:04](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=4) Now.

[0:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=11) I didn't like yesterday's episode, not, not at all, there were a lot of clips that, that I didn't like, but it's my fault because I have to remember that we're filmed 24/7 and that some things are better left unsaid, or if you have to say them,

[0:27](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=27) say them the right way. I mean, yesterday I also talked a bit with Ale then afterwards about the clip that came out, the one where I said, "Hey, shall we go get a coffee?" And so on.

[0:36](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=36) And he told me, "I understood what you meant to tell me, but at first I was taken aback." I said, "Sorry, but why didn't you…?" I mean, to me, he said, "I was taken aback," but then I immediately understood what you meant, so I didn't say anything.

[0:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=49) I said, "Sorry, but if, if you took— perceived it one way, if you understood it one way, I mean you just had to ask me, "What do you mean? I mean, what are you trying to say?

[0:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=59) What...?" I mean, mine, maybe it's just an expression I use, I don't know, but, I mean, like, let's go grab a coffee, meaning let's meet up, I mea— we'll sit at a table and talk.

[1:09](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=69) I mean, that was the point. Because, as I already said, explained that time, I don't even want to repeat it, it's obvious that in here I can't promise you eternal love, just as you can't do that with me, because outside of here there are so many situations we haven— we haven't taken into consideration. He lives in Rome, I live in Milan,

[1:25](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=85) basically. Then I don't know what his daily life is like, he doesn't know what mine is like, I don't know the circles he moves in, whether I might like them Oh no. He doesn't know the circles I run in, I don't know what he's like out here.

[1:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=97) Outside. Sure, but maybe, from what you— Now, I mean...

[1:43](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=103) I told him this, I told him: I'm scared.

[1:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=106) I mean, I'm staying ten steps back, not because I'm not interested in him or because I... I told him this yester— For your courage.

[1:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=112) When I get out of here, he's the first person I want to talk to.

[1:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=116) I mean, I want to talk to him from here, I want to see him outside of here, that's a given. I'm sorry that didn't come across in the message, but I explained myself badly.

[2:05](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=125) Anyway, that was really just a ten-second clip, but then we talked about this afterward and we...

[2:11](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=131) I explained myself a little better. But I understand that, seeing that clip, someone would say, "What the fuck is she saying?"

[2:17](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=137) Like, what the fuck is he doing?” Got it? So it makes sense.

[2:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=141) But, um, I mean, it’s obvious that outside of here it’s an unknown, both because of the whole situation and because it is, so then you don’t, you don’t know what’s outside, but babe, I mean, I don’t want to, I already have a thousand problems in my life right now that I’ll have to solve.

[2:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=161) If I also have to start solving, I mean, if I also have to feel bad over other things...

[2:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=166) Yes, but don’t get worked up before things happen.

[2:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=170) No, I know, but— I understand you do it to protect yourself, and I understand that, babe, when you fall in love, then, uh, I mean, there’s no one else for you.

[3:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=183) And you’re afraid of that, because you still don’t know him well enough, you don’t trust him.

[3:07](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=187) No, of course. And I also understand that you say, um, you didn’t have a reaction right then and there when I said that thing, so You, you implied that he felt the same way.

[3:21](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=201) Exactly. That—he too, I mean, saw it the same way you did.

[3:27](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=207) But what did he say? I mean, did it bother him in that moment?

[3:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=210) No, he was— he was taken aback for a moment, like…

[3:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=214) He didn't understand what I meant, basically.

[3:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=217) But there in tonight's episode, I mean, last night, when he saw it again?

[3:40](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=220) No, no, no, when it happened. Then afterward, we— I talked to him, and then he understood. But he told me, "At first, I was taken aback because I, I didn't really understand what you meant."

[3:49](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=229) That's why, why the fuck didn't you ask me?

[3:52](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=232) I mean, we're talking, tell me what you mean.

[3:55](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=235) I mean, it's not like you have to say, "Oh my God, what are you saying?" No, but, I mean, say, "I, I don't understand, I mean, what do you mean by that?"

[4:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=243) And I would have explained myself better, you know?

[4:06](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=246) Simply. Or even tell you, "No, that's not how it is for me, I, on the other hand..."

[4:13](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=253) Yeah, but come on. Come on. Someone like him...

[4:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=259) But he's a little tense too, love. Yeah, but he says that outside of here there are many situations we don't know about.

[4:29](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=269) And he told me too, I mean, yesterday he told me, "Anyway, it's the first time I've felt these emotions, these feelings with someone since I split up with my ex five years ago.

[4:41](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=281) It's the first time it's happened to me again," because he told me, "I, um, always act like a jerk with girls because I'm afraid of getting attached, afraid of making something more serious, and so my method is: I act like a jerk so I push them away, and that's it."

[4:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=296) With me he can't do it. I mean, it's not that he can't do it, he could do it too, but he probably likes me enough, and anyway in a context like that you avoid me, right, you can't.

[5:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=315) You don't want to. You don't want to, exactly. And then he told me that he would always be glued to me 24/7, etc. Maybe he doesn't do it because he sees that I'm a little colder, a little more detached.

[5:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=328) But I mean, that's just how I am, babe, in life.

[5:30](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=330) I mean, I'm super selective in my life, even with friends.

[5:34](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=334) I mean, I really have very few friends who, who are family to me. Then I also have lots of friends I hang out with casually, from work, friends who are still friends, but whom I don't consider family.

[5:46](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=346) I can literally count my family on the fingers of one hand, so that's how I am in general in my life.

[5:50](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=350) And when you get to know me, I'm very cold, detached, I keep my distance.

[5:54](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=354) But then, if you manage to get into my— into my heart, love, I'd give you my life.

[5:59](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=359) But, um, at first I'm very guarded, especially in this context. Anyway, the opinion I have of hi— that I had of him before coming in, I don't have it anymore, obviously. But— It influenced me a little.

[6:15](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=375) It influenced me, and in any case, that side of him exists.

[6:19](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=379) Of course, you tell me you don't know it because, anyway, no, no, no— here, it's not...

[6:26](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=386) I mean, here, we're just ourselves, you can't know what it's like outside. But I can tell you, love, don't get ahead of yourself.

[6:37](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=397) I mean, I understand that it's difficult for, for your personality, for the— because that's how you are, but don't get ahead of yourself before things happen. I mean, allow yourself to make mistakes too and to say— Honey, I’m messing everything up, and that’s it, I mean, allow yourself to make mistakes.

[6:56](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=416) At least that much, I mean. I’m... Allow yourself to make mistakes, honey, but if you’re messing everything up and that’s it.

[7:03](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=423) It’s okay, I mean, it’s a journey, it’s not like, uh, everything is perfect. It’s also your first time on a television show. It’s normal that now, thanks to these things, you’ll better understand how to say things, how to approach certain topics too, like that thing with the agency.

[7:25](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=445) No, but look, that, I mean, that really...

[7:28](https://www.translate.mom/transcript/yQPNv3JADYr6/en/clearing-up-the-coffee-clip-with-ale-and-fears-about-the-future?t=448) Some of you...