Understanding Behavior and Confidence

Behaviors that get you labeled as a desperate man

If people think you lack composure, they'll look down on you,

making it easier for them to take control.

Here are three behaviors that create this impression.

First, letting your emotions swing wildly based on a single word they say.

If their reply is slow, you send follow-up texts,

or you act cold when they finally do reply.

This makes the other person think, "They must be really desperate,"

and "They seem like the high-maintenance type to date."

Second, matching their reply pace too much.

If you always reply instantly, they'll think you have nothing else to do.

People who are obsessed with texting are only thinking about that,

so they end up looking desperate.

But if you have work or other things to do, your mind will be occupied,

and you'll naturally look composed without even trying.

Finally, the third one: always prioritizing them.

People who adjust all their plans and thoughts to match the other person

will be seen as having no sense of self and won't look attractive.

The moment you start worrying, "Will they hate me if I say this?"

you already look desperate to them.

Someone who has a strong sense of self and can speak their mind

looks much more composed and attractive.

I hope you find this video helpful.