Discussion on Modesty and Appearance

We put up a post saying, “What’s with all of you out in the streets?”

You’ve stripped naked and gone out, showing your navels and breasts.

This is what my own hijab looks like. I

I’m not a very modest person. I wear short sleeves and pleated pants

when I go out.

But immodesty and indecency are very different from

not wearing hijab. You can be a man without hijab

and still be well dressed. It isn’t about gender.

These days, men are dressing even worse than women.

Men also really need

to get their attire in order. When you put something on

display that belongs only in private and

should be seen by those closest to you,

and others are seeing it, you have an insecurity, my dear.

You have an insecurity and need attention.

Otherwise, someone who isn’t insecure can live quite normally, like everyone else.

When I say

to be chaste, for yourselves, for your bodies

Value yourselves. It's not because I'm on any particular side.

No, dear, I'm not on any side. For yourselves,

value your body and your beauty.

Don't let any lustful eye see your body and

go ooh and ahh over it. Yes.