Spanish → English transcript

But why does the girl always wait for the guy to make a move on her, dude?

It pisses me off… But because, girls…

I mean, you got dressed, you look like a goddess, you’re funny, you’re smart.

Why are you waiting for the guy to come and get you? Because you say that if not,

you’re not worthy of getting a kiss.

That’s why it’s so frowned upon for the girl to be the one who wants it,

and that’s it. Because if the guy doesn’t…

doesn’t want to, we’ve got nothing.

That’s the position we put ourselves in all the time. Not all women, clearly.

I’m talking about the girls who do this, who are still the majority.

I mean, a big part of women are like,“ He’s a coward, he’s not coming.”

But, girl, you didn’t do anything. And princes don’t exist anymore,

men in armor don’t exist anymore, and we don’t want that either,

because in the time when that kind of man existed, where was the woman? No.

Now, what I mean is, you are dignified enough, smart and pretty enough to go

and chat up someone you like.

You do not have to wait for the man to feel like coming over and telling you that

he wants to kiss you.

Because also, we know that you are probably single and you

are probably asking yourself,“ Oh, why does the same thing always happen to me?”

Do you know why the same thing always happens to you?

Because you are at a club, you like some guy, and instead of going up to that guy,

who might be waiting because he does not want to be a jerk or because he does not

want to disrespect you or because he does not want to

step into your group and it seems, I do not know, dumb to him if he goes in there,

which is much more respectful than the little dude you end up making out with

because he comes up to your group because he’s really horny,

every day he does the same thing to someone else, he comes, rubs up against you,

you ignored him, he left,

made out with your friend who was totally wasted,

your friend never saw that he rubbed on you…

Those are the situations you usually live through. Why don’t you move?

Because you put yourself in a position where the other person has

to decide what you can do or not.

Why do you go to a club and just wait for a man to come to you no matter what?

Go, you idiot. I am not saying you should go and grind on him,

but ask him for a light, start a conversation, get closer,

do something so that for the other person it is not a dick move either…

because if not, basically, no one is going to make a move on you.

And if you are waiting for a prince to show up, then forget it,

you’re going to die single.

Another thing that really bothers me is for this… for this reason, right?

Because we put the woman in a place where...

then when she is the one who wants something physical and nothing else,

it’s frowned upon.

Because obviously we have to wait for the man to want to,

and then maybe we can have something.

Another thing that I also see a lot, going along these lines,

is that it’s frowned upon for a man to say that he thinks someone is ugly.

Your self- esteem cannot be based on whether a man tells you that you are pretty or

ugly or whether a man rejects you or does not reject you.

And the guy is not an idiot for saying that he thinks someone is ugly.

He has the same right that we do.

And the man is also put in a place where he cannot say no.

I mean, if the guy says no,

then he’s either gay or a coward, and it doesn’t work like that.

So it’s also good that we respect things from the other side, because...

I don’t know,

I feel like it’s kind of like the basis of… of equality is to respect

each other as well. And this thing is coming up that if the guy says no, he’s a fag,

and if the guy doesn’t come up to you, he’s a coward, and if the guy told you...

that no because he thought you were ugly, you’re ugly. And that is wrong.