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If you don't mind me asking, are you a virgin? Looking at your nails,

you don't look like you do housework. You're 30 and have never dated?

If I really married you,

I'd feel like a live- in son- in- law. I'd feel a lot of pressure.

The current economic climate isn't very good.

How is your foreign trade business doing? It's just okay. I make about

300,000 a year. Anyway, my parents bought me my house and car.

So there's no financial pressure.

How much do you make a year from livestreaming?

For me, it's because this is our family business. My dad runs the factory. Oh.

But I'm mainly in charge of livestreaming now. Just from livestreaming, it's about a

million a year.

Then your family business must be quite large?

It's okay. We have about 2,000 to 3,000 employees. But I think

this might put some pressure on me. Why? Actually,

I don't care how much money you make. If I married you,

I'd feel like a live- in son- in- law. I'd feel a lot of pressure. I understand.

Do you have to livestream every day?

Generally, I might take a day off if my voice is hoarse.

Otherwise, I livestream every day. Do you usually do housework?

Uh, usually not, because we have a housekeeper. So the housekeeper cooks

dinner for you? Yes, because I don't really know how to cook. I can tell.

Looking at your nails, you don't look like you do housework. Girls like doing

them nowadays. Since I live alone, I usually order takeout or eat out with friends.

So I want to find someone who can cook at home, so I can eat as soon as I get

home from work.

Since you care so much about your wife doing housework, do you do it yourself?

I do. I get home early in the evening. If you're willing to cook,

I can do the dishes. I think both people should contribute. Actually, your point is

quite right. Working together, like that.

But maybe because I haven't started a family yet,

my current habit is to focus on my career. But if one day I return to family life,

once I have my own family, I think your lifestyle is quite nice. For example,

having a child and raising them together,

spending more time on the family.

Have you ever thought about when you'll have kids? Actually, I don't really mind

either way, because I feel having kids brings a lot of pressure.

My life right now is pretty good, with no pressure, and several people around me

already have kids.

They have to take care of kids when they go home at night.

When you ask them out for a drink or to play ball, they have no time, right?

I think it'd be nice for two people to make some money and travel.

There's no need to waste money on kids.

Hearing this perspective from a guy is actually quite unique.

Because generally speaking, from the blind dates I've had,

many guys are in a big hurry to have kids. But someone like you is indeed rare.

However, from my perspective, I don't

really want to rush into having kids either. But looking at life in the long run,

it would definitely be better to have a child of our own in the future.

But some of my female friends say giving birth is very painful. Don't you think so?

Actually, deep down, you just don't really want kids, right?

Yes, I indeed don't really want kids. Mm, I can tell. Can you accept that?

Uh, I can accept having them later, but if you mean not having them at all,

then I really can't accept that. Aren't you afraid of being lonely when you grow

old? I don't think there's any need to worry about the future. Live in the moment.

Well, that's not wrong. It's just that everyone lives differently.

Maybe it's like they say... Hearing you say that, you seem quite traditional.

So, let me ask, how many boyfriends have you had before?

How many have you had? 00: 03: 57.000--> 04: 00,00 0 I've never dated anyone.

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02,000 You're 30 and you've never dated anyone? 00: 04: 02.000--> 04:

09,00 0 But I've had some interactions.

It's probably because I have a bit of emotional perfectionism. 00: 04: 09.000--> 04:

11,00 0 Emotional perfectionism? Yes. 00: 04: 11.000--> 04:

15,000 If you don't mind me asking, are you a virgin? 00: 04: 15.000--> 04:

22,00 0 Don't you think asking this question when you're 30 is a

little bit ridiculous? 00: 04: 22.000--> 04: 25,00 0 Actually,

I've had a girlfriend before00: 04: 25, 000 --> 04:

31,000When I think about her being with other guys in the past,

I feel a bit of a mental block. 00: 04: 31.000--> 04: 35,00 0 Because honestly,

we're almost 30 years old now00: 0 4: 35,000 --> 04:

38,000Maybe the people we meet now all have past relationship experiences.

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43,00 0 Then I think if you truly want to be with this girl,

as long as her past is just normal experience, 00: 04: 43.000--> 04: 45,00 0 and

not fooling around out there00: 04: 45.000--> 04:

49,000then I don't think this should be a reason for you not to be with her.

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55,00 0 So you'll find that after meeting many girls,

very few actually meet your standards. 00: 04: 55.000--> 05:

01,00 0 But since you can speak openly about this,

I think you're quite honest, and talking to you, you seem like a very nice person.

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06,00 0 It's just that we might not be very compatible on certain views.

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10,00 0 But I think we can still be friends. What do you think? 00: 05:

10.000--> 05: 11,00 0 I think that's fine00: 05: 11.000--> 05:

15,000 It's getting late.

How about I buy you dinner tonight? 00: 05: 15.000--> 05:

18,00 0 No, no, it's on me. It's fine, I've got this.