Japanese → English transcript
What exactly is the clear difference between when you were happy and when you stopped being happy?
For example, I actually really like doing things for other people.
So that is probably why I like childcare too.
I really love doing things for my kids.
And when you like someone, doing things for them feels good, right?
Like, say you get a girlfriend and you give her a nice present.
Men really feel happiness in that, don’t they?
The moment that “doing things for her” turns into “why do I have to do this for this person?”
I felt like, oh, this is no good anymore, there is no going back.
You do feel that all of a sudden, right?
But then it is like, “Huh, today he is kind of being nicer, isn’t he?”
“Hey, today he is doing things for me, that is kind of nice.”
Have you ever not had it just snap back to how it was when it dropped?
Oh, I have, I have, and that is where we adjust things over and over.
We are married, so we intend to be together for life.
We keep adjusting things again and again.
Even after all that adjustment, it is still like, “Why, seriously?”
In the end, there are things you just cannot fully reconcile.
Yeah, exactly, because we are still separate people after all.
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Original transcript (Japanese)
幸せだった時と幸せじゃなくなった時の明確な差って何なんですか? 例えばなんですけど、私結構してあげることが好きで なんで多分、育児も好きなんですけど 子供に何かをしてあげるっていうものがすごい好きなんで なんですけど、好きな時って誰かに何かをしてあげることって気持ちいいじゃないですか
例えばじゃあ、彼女ができてちょっといいプレゼントしたらいいとか 男性ってそれに結構幸せを感じるじゃないですか そのしてあげてたことが、なんでこいつのためにこれしなきゃいけないんだろうっていうのが変わった瞬間に もうダメなんだなって、戻れないんだなっていう風に思いました それって一瞬そう思うじゃないですか
でも、あれなんか今日だんだん優しくない?みたいな あれ今日なんかやってくれるやん、なんかいいじゃんって 戻ることってピャンって落ちた時はないですか? いや、ありますあります、それ何度も擦り合わせです 結婚してますから一生一緒にいる気でいますし
何回も何回も擦り合わせて 擦り合わせたけど、なんでやねんみたいな やっぱ擦り合わしきれないってことですね そうですね、やっぱ他人どうしても
