Attraction Traits in Men Discussed

Things we find attractive in men.

I’m speaking for most women and exposing you, uh...

Cancel me if you want. The most attractive trait I see in

men, among Arab and foreign women, and women across the world, based on research

and observation, is coolness. I’ve noticed men

who are cool, cool, who even when they swear, laugh,

attract women.

Unlike what they’re trying to tell us, that women love

rude men. I feel—

I feel that men like that, an angry man, uh,

What’s wrong with him? I feel like he’s a woman with raging hormones, or a teenager going off.

Seriously, that’s how he comes across. What’s wrong with you? We’re the ones

who get worked up, we’re the ones with hormones and problems. What do you have? What’s wrong with you?

I mean, even, even, I mean,

I mean, I feel like a normal man

if he gets angry or goes off like that,

that kind of anger and ferocity, he lets it out at the right time.

Not 24 hours a day of... of conflict.

You feel he loses his dignity, honestly, you really feel he loses his dignity.

Attractive things,

This is the strangest thing, they’re opposites.

But strangely, women are attracted to men who make them laugh, who crack them up.

At the same time, they like men who don’t

talk and are quiet.

How? Nobody knows, not even us. Honestly,

and I’m speaking for everyone here, most women on Earth like men who

treat them like they’re someone important, not like one of the guys you can be casual with.

No, like one of the guys your relationship with is formal with.

That kind of treatment, not coming at her like this, huh? It makes her think,

“What’s with this lightweight? What’s this—what’s this simp?”

When you see a man who’s reserved,

he seems like he has value. In the end, look, attraction is related

to the human mind, to marriage, to children. I mean, that’s the basis

of attraction, okay? Marriage, children. A very reserved man, it’s not that a woman likes

him walking all over her, no, she doesn’t like that. Does a woman like a helpless man? No.

Women like reserved men because, usually, a reserved man preserves

his resources, preserves, uh, his children, not every time

If she laughs at him once, he'll chase after her like that, and he'll ruin the family.

As for attraction, I told you something about the subconscious. What does the subconscious see? The subconscious

sees that this man is a family man, a strong person with character, not

someone who chases every girl who laughs. That's why women are so attracted to a man who treats

her

naturally, not someone who sees her and goes,

"Oh, she smiled."

Of course, there are rude people looking for a pushover

so they can exploit him and all that. I'm not talking about those, okay? A man

who has work or a job,

What attracts women? As I told you, women used to be attracted

to men who hunted, skilled hunters, because they want to eat, they want to survive, they

and their children. If she gets pregnant and gives birth, she won't be able to hunt

for herself, so that male has to

go hunt for her. Now there are no males hunting for her, so she's become

attracted

to a man who has a job, who can provide, who can bring home money.

And of course, the more money there is, the greater the attraction. It's instinctive, I mean, it's not

up to women.

But there are very, very, very attractive professions,

the first being a doctor. Why? Because this profession means not

just spending, it means saving. This is someone people rely on

as a man who protects the herd, and also as someone

who heals. This profession is very attractive, attractive

to an unnatural degree. You’ve got, uh, an architect,

why? Because, in the simple,

primitive mind, this person can build a shelter, he can get things done.

So, it all depends on primitiveness, it all depends on you having

survival skills, on being able to protect the family and keep this

family safe in her primitive mind, even if her idea is to marry you and have your children,

her primitive mind interprets attraction as, damn it, he can protect

the family, he’s s-s-solid and smart and whatever,

those kinds of traits. Another major attraction is having good genes,

good genes,

not that you look good, but that your genes are good,

and that you’re healthy. The more you say your genes have bad things

and your health is poor, the less attracted people will be to you, whether you’re a man or a woman.

In both cases, attraction to that person will decrease.