Transcript · English → Chinese
Understanding Life Through Hospice Perspectives
一切都很完美。
那是什么意思？
意思是，现在发生的一切其实是
一个物种走向成熟的完美体现。
物种。
我们其实并没有
陷入所谓的多重危机。 我们正处于临终关怀时刻。
而我做临终关怀医生时的喜悦 与我管理重症监护室、抗击死亡时截 然不同
也不同于我每天与死亡抗争 却又败给死亡的时候
每一天。 作为医生，你只需改变片刻的视角
然后你
突然就坐在某个人的床边， 而且
胜利不再是让生命 延续得更久
而是将发生过的一切 融会贯通。
我一次又一次地见证 人类在
生命最后几分钟时
突然回首往事， 意识到自己的一生很完美。
我觉得，我们正处于一个令人振奋的 时刻， 即将超越这种状态
在这种人类视角两极分化的状态中， 我们不断
颠倒受害者与加害者的角色， 并利用救世主心态
让受害者与加害者这枚硬币 不停翻转
以维持这场幻象。 我们也可以谈谈我们最初
为什么创造了这场幻象。
但在临终关怀的时刻， 你突然把那枚硬币放下，
然后有人
开始跨越大脑有限的五感 所构成的帷幕，
开始感受到一阵狂喜， 他们开始
意识到
“我的天，整件事在诗意上 都完美无缺。
所有的心碎、 所有的疏离，所有
的失望、 所有的不安全感。
我经历这一切， 就是为了这番体验，而且我感受到了
一切。 一个人类能感受到的一切。”
而你会看到，有个人就在一 分钟前还真心以为自己的人生是场
失败，你知道，他和孩子相处得很 艰难，
工作上也从未
取得成功，但他突然意识到，这与任 何 一种衡量标准都无关。
这关乎一种体验，那就是 感受到
人类能够感受的一切，
这或许是灵魂所能拥有的最独特 体验之一。我们
是一个非常奇特的物种，因为我们的 感知有其局限，
正因如此，我们得以感受许多事， 而这实在是一种祝福。
所以我认为，我们这个物种如今正 走向这个时刻。我们一直在——
我们正处于临终关怀病床上，
而且我们以目前的形态已经存在了 三十万年。
我们已经得到了临终关怀的诊断。
我们目前这种形态还剩下 几十年。
我们目前这种形态还剩下 几十年。
就在我们放下 受害者与加害者的对立感时
比如说，
他是对的，她是错的，
她是对的，他是错的，
我们放下这枚硬币， 突然就会迎来临终关怀般的时刻
在那一刻，
一切突然变得明白， 我们也理解了为何要一同走过这段 旅程
我们意识到，那些我们以为 是敌人或人生中最大问题的人
我们意识到，那些我们以为 是敌人或人生中最大问题的人
的
存在，正承载着人类 经历中的对立面。
我一直在等待我们临终前的那一刻， 因为大约百分之十的
临终关怀患者并不会死去。 他们会出院，继续开始
新的生活
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Original transcript (English)
Everything is perfect. What does that mean? It means that everything that's happening right now is actually a perfect manifestation of a maturation of a species.
We don't actually have, you know, a polycrisis going on. We've got a hospice moment. And the joy that I had as a hospice doctor was so different than when I was running ICUs and battling against death and failing against death every day. You change your perspective for a moment
as a doctor, and you suddenly are sitting by somebody's bed, and the victory is no longer staying alive longer. It's integrating everything that's happened. And I got to watch over and over again how humans at
that last few minutes of life suddenly look back and realize their life was perfect. And I think that's the exciting moment we're in, is we're gonna move past this polarized state of human perspective where we keep flipping the victim-perpetrator code, and we use the savior
mentality to keep that victim-perpetrator coin flipping to keep a mirage going. And we can get into why we created the mirage in the first place. But in the hospice moment, you suddenly put that coin down, and somebody
starts dipping across the veil of the limited five senses of their brain, and they start feeling an ecstatic moment where they realize, "Oh my God, the whole thing was poetically perfect. All of the heartbreak, all of the estrangement, all
of the disappointment, all of the insecurity. I did that for the experience, and I felt everything. I felt everything a human can feel." And you get to see somebody who just a moment ago really thought their life was a failure, you know, difficult time with their kids,
never became successful in their jobs, and they suddenly realized it had nothing to do with any of those metrics. It had to do with the experience of feeling everything a human being is capable of, which is probably one of the most unique
experiences a soul can have. We are a very strange species for the limitations of our perception, and for that, we get to feel a lot, and that's really blessed. And so I think we're moving towards this moment as a species now. We've been-- we're on our hospice bed,
and we've been here 300,000 years in our current form. We've been given our hospice diagnosis. We got a few decades left in this current form. At that moment when we put down that victim-perpetrator polarized sense of like,
he's right, she's wrong, she's right, he's wrong, we set that coin down, we're gonna suddenly have a hospice moment where everything suddenly makes sense, and we understand why we did the journey
together. We realize that those that we thought were our enemies or the biggest problems of our lives were holding polarity to a human experience. I was waiting for our deathbed moment because about 10% of
hospice patients don't die. They get discharged and go on to live a new life
