Spanish → English transcript

You’re in a relationship, do you trust your partner one hundred percent?

No.

For me, it’s a problem if you trust your partner one hundred percent,

because you can never trust what someone else is going to do.

In fact, you can hardly even trust what you yourself might feel.

If I tell you that I’m going to love you my whole life, I’m lying, because you can’t trust me.

Now, what you have to try to build in therapy and with yourself

is the trust you are going to have in yourself to say,

if he does something that hurts me and I have to break up over this and I find out,

I have the tools to get over this relationship.

The one who will end up losing, or the person who will end up creating a bigger conflict for themself,

is the person who hurts me, who lies to me, who cheats on me.

Now, me, my trust is in myself.

Well, there is a saying that goes, the bird does not trust the branch it is perched on,

but its ability to fly.

I love it.

If you trust your ability to fly, to move forward, you cannot trust the “pájara.”

For me, part of growing up is understanding that, obviously, you do trust.

It is not about being distrustful either.

You trust that the other person is going to take care of it.

It is also knowing that this person, just like any human being in the world,

can let you down.

If you believe that someone is never going to let you down,

you still have not had real relationships where…

Obviously, you are not telling them to let you down all the time either.

But we definitely make mistakes and, without a doubt, if we have long-term relationships,

we end up forgiving a lot of things we never expected would happen.