Transcript · Chinese (China) → English
Wealth Lessons from Billionaire Grant Cardone
A billionaire's video recently went viral online,
showing him teaching his daughter to make money.
This dad is Grant Cardone,
a self-made American entrepreneur
who went from an ordinary salesperson
all the way to a billionaire.
So I was really curious:
How would someone who actually made
their fortune from scratch teach
his daughter to make money?
I watched the entire video
and picked out the three money mindsets
that are most useful for ordinary people,
yet rarely mentioned. And you'll find that
much of what he teaches his daughter
is almost the exact opposite of
what we were taught growing up.
Especially the last one—I think
the sooner people know it, the better.
First, girls must learn
sales. When Grant's daughter wanted to make
her first short film
and needed to raise money,
he was fully capable of giving it to her directly,
but he didn't.
Instead, she knocked on strangers' doors,
pitching her film,
and raised 3,000 dollars in two days.
But what Grant really wanted to teach
wasn't about the 3,000 dollars,
but proactively asking for resources,
facing rejection, and persuading people.
Because as a girl grows up, she'll find
that many important opportunities won't
simply come to you
just because you're good enough.
Want a raise? Negotiate. Want a promotion?
Go after it. Want to win clients
and close deals? You must build trust.
But many girls were taught growing up
to be modest, not too pushy, and just
do their own work well,
believing others will naturally notice.
But that's not how the adult world works.
Doing something well and letting people know
that you can do it well
are two completely different skills.
So Grant taught his daughter early on
that sales skills give a girl the confidence
to never have to wait
for someone else to choose her.
Second, you don't have to like something
before you do it well. When Grant
first entered the car business,
he didn't like the job at all.
But instead of quitting because he disliked it,
he found ways to do it well first.
As he got better and better at it
and made more and more money,
he actually started to like it.
This goes completely against
the advice to "find your passion."
We always think life works in the order
of liking it first,
working hard, and finally mastering it.
But with many things, it's the exact opposite:
do it first, gradually get good at it,
get results, and only then like it.
And when people first start
doing something, they are at their clumsiest,
most prone to failure,
and feel no sense of achievement.
That is why we are so prone
at this stage to say, "I don't
like it, I'm not cut out for it."
But sometimes you don't truly dislike it;
you just dislike the feeling
of not being good at it yet.
If you walk away every time it is hardest
and yields the lowest return,
it will be hard to hold out until a skill
truly starts to become valuable.
Third, among the three most important pieces of advice
a billionaire gave his daughter,
money actually ranked only third.
His daughter asked Grant, "If you could only
give me a few pieces of life advice,
what would you want me to remember most?"
He barely had to think.
"First, choose the right partner;
second, don't have too many friends;
third, you must understand money."
What is most interesting is that
a self-made billionaire actually
ranked money third.
Why is your partner first?
Because choosing a partner is actually
choosing your next several decades.
If you choose the wrong person,
what you lose is not just feelings,
but also your time, attention,
and even your ability to build wealth.
Why shouldn't you have too many friends?
Because one's time, attention, and trust
are inherently limited assets.
You can know many people,
but those who truly enter
your inner circle must be few.
Only last comes money. Grant wants
his daughter to understand not just how to spend money,
but how money is generated,
how it is kept, and how it keeps growing.
Because only people who truly understand money
will not be stuck forever selling
their time for income.
So looking at these three points,
I realized Grant, in teaching his daughter to make money,
did not start by teaching how to buy stocks
or invest; he first taught how to
proactively pursue opportunities,
how to make herself valuable,
and how to protect her time,
relationships, and money.
Because a person's true wealth capability
is never just about how much money
is in their bank account right now,
but rather, if one day all of that
money is gone, whether you still have
the ability to earn it all back.
This may be the money-making ability
that a self-made billionaire
most wants to teach his daughter.
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Original transcript (Chinese (China))
最近外网有一段亿万富翁 教女儿赚钱的视频特别火。 这个爸爸叫GrantCardone, 是美国白手起家的创业代, 从一个普通销售一路
做到亿万身家。 所以我特别好奇, 一个真正靠自己把钱 赚出来的人,到底会怎么教 自己的女儿赚钱。
我把这段内容完整看了一遍, 挑出了里面对普通人最有用, 但反而最少有人提到的三个 赚钱思维。而且你会发现, 他教女儿的很多东西跟我们
从小接受的教育 几乎是反着来的。 尤其最后一个,我觉得很多 人越早知道越好。 第一,女孩一定要学
会销售。Grant的女儿想拍自 己的第一部电影短片, 需要筹钱。 明明完全有能力直接给 她,但他没有。
于是女儿真的挨家挨户敲陌 生人的门,介绍自己的电影, 两天筹到了三千美元。 但Grant真正想训 练的根本不是这三千美元,
而是主动开口争取资源, 面对拒绝,说服别人。 因为一个女孩长大以后会发现, 很多重要的机会不会 因为你足够优
秀就自动来到你面前。 你想加薪,要谈,想升职, 要争取,想拿客户, 谈合作,都要让别人相信你。 但很多女孩从小接受的教育恰
恰是谦虚一点,别太主动,把 自己的事情做好, 别人自然会看见。 可成年人的世界不是这样的, 把事情做好和让别人知道
你能把事情做 好是两种完全不同的能力。 所以Grant很早就让女儿知道, 销售能力是一个女孩不需 要永远等着别
人选择自己的底气。 第二,你不一定要先喜 欢一件事才把它做好。Grant 刚进入汽车行业的时候, 其实根本不喜欢这份工作,
但他没有因为不喜欢就离开, 而是先想办法把它做好。 结果随着自己越来越擅长地 赚到的钱越来越多,他反而开始 喜欢这件事。
这跟我们现在经常听到 的一定要找到自己的热爱, 刚好是反着的。我们总以为人生 的顺序是先喜欢, 再努力,最后擅长。
但很多事情可能恰恰相反, 先做,慢慢擅长, 拿到结果,最后才喜欢。 而且人在刚开始做 一件事的时候,恰恰是最笨拙、
最容易失败、 没有成就感的时候。 所以我们特别容易 在这个阶段说我不 喜欢,我不适合。
但有时候你不是真的不喜欢, 你只是不喜欢自己还不 擅长它的感觉。 如果每次都在最难、 回报最低的时候离开,
你就很难熬到一项能力 真正开始值钱的时候。 第三,一个亿万富翁 给女儿最重要的三条忠告, 钱居然只排第三。
女儿问Grant,如果你只能 给我几条人生建议, 你最希望我记住什么? 他几乎没有思考。 第一,选对伴侣
,第二,不要有太多朋友, 第三,一定要理解钱。 最有意思的是, 一个白手起家的亿万富翁居 然把钱排在第三。
为什么伴侣第一? 因为选伴侣其实是 在选择未来几十年。 选错一个人, 损失的不只是感情,
还有你的时间、注意力, 甚至积累财富的能力。 为什么不要有太多朋友? 因为一个人的时间、注意力和信 任本身就是有限的资产。
你可以认识很多人, 但真正进入核 心圈的人一定要少。 最后才是钱。Grant希望女儿 理解的不只是怎么花钱,
而是钱怎么产生, 怎么留下,怎么继续增长。 因为真正理解钱的 人才不会永远只能靠出售 自己的时间获得收入。
所以这三点看下来, 我发现Grant教女儿赚钱并没 有先教她怎么买股票, 怎么投资,他先教的是怎么 主动争取机会,
怎么把自己变得值钱, 以及怎么保护自己的时间 、关系和钱。 因为一个人真正的财富能力 从来不只是银行卡里
现在有多少钱, 而是如果有一天这些 钱都没有了,你还有没有 能力重新把它赚回来。 这可能才是一个白
手起家的亿万富翁 最想教给女儿的赚钱能力。