Fear of Making Mistakes and Self-Criticism
1 min Machine translated Life & society
Sometimes I get sca—I'm scared, I mean. I, I judge myself a lot about the choices I make, the things I do.
And I'm really scared of always making mistakes.
I'm very hard, very, very, very, very hard on myself.
But sometimes, inevitably, I do things that I hold against myself, I get the math wrong.
Look, everyone makes mistakes, love. That's the truth, we're better at giving advice to other people.
Yeah. I'm great at helping others, but with myself, I'm kind of— But why, if you're still someone who doesn't…
I mean, I don't take for granted— I don't know how to say it, I don't feel— I mean, I have an argument with you, I don't necessarily say that I question myself, but I don't assume my version is right. Same here.
Because maybe I got the approach wrong, Maybe I got it wrong, maybe I expressed myself— to make myself understood by you.
Uh, the only thing that really—and it's the thing that kind of left me— or anyway, is that I feel like I'm a pretty clear person, anyway.
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Original transcript (Italian)
A volte faccio pau-- c'ho paura, cioè mi, mi giudico un sacco sulle scelte, le cose che faccio.
E c'ho un sacco paura di sbagliare sempre.
Sono molto severa, molto, molto, molto, molto severa con me stessa.
Però a volte poi inevitabilmente faccio cose che mi metto in conto, sbaglio un conto.
Guarda, sbagliano tutti amore. Questa è la verità, che sugli altri siamo più bravi a dare il consiglio.
Sì. Io sugli altri sono bravissima, su me stessa faccio un po' di-- ma perché se sei comunque una persona che non...
Cioè io non do per scontate le-- non so come dire, non mi sento-- cioè ho una discussione con te, comunque non dico che mi metto in discussione, ma non do per certo che la mia versione sia giusta. Uguale.
Perché magari posso aver sbagliato il modo, posso aver sbagliato magari a, a, a esprimermi nel-- per farmi capire a te.
Eeeh, l'unica cosa che realmente, ed è la cosa che un po' mi ha fatto rimanere-- o comunque, è che mi sembra di essere una persona comunque chiara
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