Exploring Fantasies in Open Relationships

just like years of just kind of building these crazy fantasies and pushing buttons and seeing

what turned each other on um that we kind of discovered that like he really was turned on

by the idea of me with other guys and i liked that um but yeah again it was what about like

actually doing it what was like that was that was it's such a big step to take oh

it was like there was just so much happening like we we already knew we were into this i

know it's never gonna happen it's just that's he didn't care if he was there or not um at first it

was just it was just me on my own and i come home with like the stories about it uh it wasn't until

later like if we found guys that were comfortable with him being there then he'd wait so okay let's

hear about your first experience like what do you do is it online thing or did you go to the bar

no we've never been like bar people it's always been like kind of like sneaky like online the

thing seems so outdated now even though that is how i probably had like 90 of the throughout my

life was like just going out and meeting yeah you know um but we were also very like as nobody

in our personal life knew what we were doing and what we were like getting into into i didn't want

to go to a bar and like run into like you know neighbor and yeah just here picking up guys um

because we were just testing it out and trying it out so we just downloaded tinder made a profile

and that was exciting too it was just like like the two of us just like a couple of perverts just

like looking through guys being like i'd him i'd be like would you like to see me him and like

before we even did anything we're just like perving over these poor gentlemen on tinder

okay but but like we gotta ask he's 100 straight yeah okay yeah but he could look at a guy and

appreciate the idea of this guy picturing him picturing the guy being his wife yeah

is is what does it for him wow um yeah so guy shopping guy shopping