Advice on Dating Dynamics

Guys, please, for the love of God, don't talk about red pill

concepts to women in real life. Pontificate about female

hypergamy or Brie Fault's law or alpha fucks, beta

bucks to any woman out there, let alone a woman you intend to .

Please have the basic common sense and social

calibration not to do something like that.

In fact, don't even give her any clue that you're aware of

modern dating dynamics or that dating dynamics even exist.

Don't say stuff like modern women, party

phase, or she wants my commitment, which alerts

her that you're clued in to this stuff.

Hell, don't talk about your internal rules like,

"I don't do dinner dates,"

or, "I don't do coffee dates." I mean, why does she need to know that?

I might be a raging red piller online, but in person,

I come across as very naive and innocuous by

design. I want women to underestimate me and

think of me as ignorant of modern intersexual

dynamics. Never show your cards to women no matter

what.

You wanna keep her guessing, you want her to think of you as

unthinking,

and let her fall into your frame gracefully.

See, the moment she's aware that you are aware of modern

dating dynamics, everything you do will seem calculated

and premeditated to manipulate her, and she'll have her

guard up. Everything will be ten times harder, and

she'll fight back a lot harder because no woman wants to feel

gamed or worked over by a professional.

No woman wants to be the one who falls for it

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