Mastering Sexual Desire for Men
As a man, you must learn to become sexually
dangerous, but not in
the way that the modern world thinks.
Not dangerous to women, not predatory, and certainly not desperate.
Not the man that sees every woman as a body to consume.
I mean dangerous because desire no longer owns you, because you
have mastered the one force that most men out there are silently
enslaved by. I'm talking about sex.
We've built a society around sex. Women have been told that their highest
expression of empowerment is their sexuality, sexually
provocative, express their sexuality publicly.
And men are told that this is healthy, that this is liberating, normal
behavior, and if they desire it, they should consume it.
But at the same time, don't sexualize women.
Don't use your male gaze towards them in a world that has never been more
sexual. Every poster and every billboard and every post on
Instagram is pure sex, and yet don't sexualize that woman.
The messaging is contradictory, hypocritical, and confused.
The women on OF are the only entrepreneurs that actually hate their own
clients, and the men that consume it all, porn, hookups, thirst
traps, dating apps, constant access to stimulation.
They're the same men that have been told that women
are more than just their
sexuality, and you wonder why everyone's confused.
But here's the contradiction.
If a woman is taught to lead with her sexuality and a man is never
taught to master his own desire, then he will meet her at the lowest
level of himself, not as a man, as an appetite.
And this is why so many women no longer respect men.
They can feel when a man is controlled by a body.
They can feel when his values disappear the moment
sex enters the room. They can feel his frame collapse under the
weight of their own desire. And no woman can respect a man that she
controls through sex. Now, a lot of you are not gonna wanna hear
this.
Your sexual desire is not the problem. Your enslavement to it is.
Sexual energy is sacred. It's creative energy.
It is your life force. It's the same fire
that builds your businesses,
bodies, art, empires, family, and legacy.
But when a man does not know how to transmute it, he becomes easy to control.
A woman's beauty controls him. Her approval controls him.
Her body controls him. And then he wonders why he feels
powerless.
The modern man was not taught to master sex.
He was taught to worship it, and he was taught to call his weakness to
desire freedom. He was taught to call his addiction healthy.
He was taught to call his submission respect.
But a man that cannot control his sexual desire cannot lead his
life. So yes, become sexually dangerous.
Dangerous because you are no longer desperate.
Dangerous because you can feel desire without obeying it.
Dangerous because your lust is no longer stronger than your
purpose, and that is a man that will never lose himself to a woman
again. If you wanna learn how to do that, click the link in my bio.
Join my community. Appreciate you all. I'll see you on the next one. Peace.
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