Discussion on Relationship Expectations

Okay.

And I got a pet peeve about this with women.

Don't change the rules for me.

What were you doing with the other brothers

before I ever came along? I'm talking principally.

Okay.

If you are a woman-

Oh, he's requiring me-

I'm talking-

... of the man

... I'm talking about-

Yeah

... if you are a woman-

Yeah

... you wanna just get down with a brother,

right?

Okay.

But then you meet somebody and you want so much more from him.

Okay.

You wanna be with him. You want the relationship,

you want the family, and all of

this other stuff. See, the brother just wanted you.

So the point is, is that if the brothers before he

ever came along, not that he would specifically know unless you

told him, but if

the brothers come along and you have, uh, you don't, are not

somebody that consistently requires the same,

you don't mind hooking up with a dude.

Oh, this is interesting.

You don't mind-

Hmm

... kicking it every now and then. You don't mind giving him some of the

good stuff, and he getting some of the good stuff

without the commitment.

Okay.

You juxtapose that to the commitment and everything that comes with it, what

do you think the man's gonna choose if he has a choice?

Which man do you think he wants to be?

He want the one without the commitment.

He wants to be the former.

Yeah, of course.

Yeah.

Yeah.

He wants to be for- he don't want all of that.

Okay.

He's willing to go that route because of you.

Yeah.

Okay.

It's kinda like carousel.

So if he's willing to go that route because of you-

Yeah.

Yeah. Who's-

... in his mind, it's forever.

Yeah.

It's like, "Wait a minute."

This-

"We ain't supposed to be doing all of this. We're not s- wait a minute.

I was chilling. I was minding my business.

I had it good. I could get mine when I wanted to.

I can live life- ... and do what I wanted to do-

Totally

... and engage in entertaining my

proclivities-

Totally get it

... and what have you, and then obviously go about my merry way.

But you wanted more, and you're worth it, so guess what?

I'm willing to go that route."

Okay.

"And then you turn around, and then all of a sudden-

All of a sudden

... we got these conditions now after..." In

other words,

all of a sudden now, I got to be worried now

that I'm married to

you.