Elijah's Drinking and Parenting: A Conversation About Allegations

I feel like the way straight men talk about gay people, it's like, they're kind of disgusted by the gay man.

And I just remember him saying, like, it doesn't make sense to me.

He's basically not grossed out by that at all, or just thinks that it's normal.

And to me, that's like, okay, there's something weird about that.

Nasty, and he won't accept any accountability, and he denies everything.

How can you reason with a man like that? Like, it's just impossible.

I've had so many good faith conversations with him where I've sat him down.

Obviously, everyone likes to think that I don't know anything, and that Elijah hides his shit well, but he doesn't.

But do you think that he can look after two kids?

No, and it sounds so bad, this is going to sound horrible, but to me it's surprising he would want to.

That sounds so bad, but does he even want to? You know what I mean?

Losing this situation, you know?

Because he's built up this whole perspective of, like, oh, I'm a father, and I'm doing everything for my kids, and all this kind of shit.

And it's like, first of all, he never spends any time with his kids. I think we both know that.

Yes.

And, I mean, you've seen him. He's drunk, like, six days a week. Like, blackout drunk, all the time.

Is it true that he hasn't been drinking for a while?

I mean, that's coming from his mouth. I just don't believe anything he says, because he's just lied so many times.

And, like, we've been through this where he'll say this all the time, and then you catch him drinking, and then he'll say,

no, I've been sober, and then you catch him drinking, and he'll deny it. And it's like, this has been going on for three years.

The last year, he wasn't hiding it. He was just, like, blackout drunk every time.

Yeah.

Like, when you traveled with him, was he just, like, drinking the whole time, like, a mess, like he usually is?

Like, half the time, yeah.

Yeah, okay. It's, yeah.

But even in Florida, it's like he's showing up on a Monday or a Tuesday at, like, 3, 4 a.m., you know, at home,

like, staggering in, like, passing out, or whatever, and it's like, dude, like, how could you ever look off to kids?

You know?

And if you want that lifestyle, wouldn't you just want to go and party? Like, go party.

It's crazy.

Yeah, I think it's just, like, an ego thing.

Oh, I had one other question. I'm not crazy. You think he's an alcoholic, right?

Like, I mean, at least in that time period, would you say that he's an alcoholic?

Yes.

Like, without a doubt, right?

Yes.

Yeah, okay.

I mean, that's the thing, like, if it came down to it, if he was, like, seriously trying to take the kids, you could probably get, like, 20 people to testify that he's an alcoholic.

Yeah, right.

Right? Like...

But that's the thing, like, I mean, maybe you would say it, but I don't know, maybe you wouldn't say it because you're, like, also, you know, he's got stuff on you.

So, it's just really, like, my word against his or, like...

I don't know.

But why doesn't anybody ever say anything?

Why doesn't anybody ever say anything?

Because, like, I feel like I'm the only person out here that's being like, hey, you're an alcoholic, stop drinking, da-da-da, like, saying it. Everybody else just keeps quiet.

Like, even in the industry, nobody says anything. Like, does he have blackmail on everybody?

Yeah.

It's incredible.

Yeah, like, his family's in Australia because the IDF is coming to kill him, and it's like, alright, buddy. Like, alright.