Manipulating Relationships for Personal Gain

How to manipulate a man to giving you what you want while also making

him think that he thought of it. Yes, this is toxic.

No, I do not care. Men are easy to manipulate and control,

you just

have to know how to do it. I'm 38, and I've learned a thing or two on how to

manipulate men into giving me what I want. So here you go.

The only time I respond via text message, to a

call, to anything, is when he does something

or says something that I like

or is benefiting me, he's giving me something.

I do this because I train men to do the things that I want.

They get my energy when they provide something to me.

You want more attention from him? You have to give less attention to him.

While giving him less attention, give more attention to some other man.

Just like my dog, I only give him attention

when he's doing things I like.

Men need to think, and again, I know this is toxic, that you

are vulnerable. For some reason, they effing love that, likely

because they're predators. But use it to your advantage.

To make a man think that you are vulnerable, that you are weak, girl,

cry.

Works every time. A crying woman is a weak woman, and

men love to please a weak woman. If you're crying,

he's buying. Again, play on the ego, play on the natural instinct to

provide and protect. "Can you pick this up for me?

It's really heavy and I just can't do it." Again,

"Can you do this for

me?"

Guilt him into it by asking for what you want in front of people he

wants to impress. Usually it's another man,

because men wanna impress other men.

Ask for what you want in front of that man.

Trust and believe he will not say no. Make him do it right then and there.

Or I love to pit them against each other.

"Do you think you can do this, or do I need to go get him?"

Silence will get them. I mean, it

will drive them nuts. I just go silent.

This is, it's so effective, just going silent.

So when he does things I don't like, I don't give him attention.

A man who is interested in you, even in the slightest, will notice a

change in behavior. Because again, they can pattern recognize,

but that's about the extent of their critical thinking.

Lie. Girl, lie, okay? They don't wanna

know the truth anyways, and the truth will not work to your

advantage.

Lie about everything and you will get what you want.

Never tell a man that a previous man has treated you like

dirt, because he will

treat you like the dirt beneath his shoe. We are not male-centered over here.

Get him the fuck outta here.

It is what it is. Nothing we say or do is gonna change these women

or their tactics. But honestly, any OG man who's been around

long enough is watching this like, "Yeah, I know.

None of this is surprising." But for the young dudes,

consider this your

education. Free game. At the end of the day, good they said it,

good we know it. But this comment, though, I can't

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