Conflict Resolution Strategies in Life

Let's say you're dealing with someone who's disrespecting you or who you suspect it's not up to anything good that maybe they

They're using you in some way and you step back and even though it's exhausting

You think about it you go here I could do a b c or d in this situation

A will lead to more conflict. I don't want that b might work c d looks really good

Actually, if I do d it'll probably surprise this person he or she and you know

They'll be surprised and they'll back off etc

And then you do it you apply it and lo and behold it works. How exciting so instead of exhausting. It's exciting

You've avoided a battle. You've avoided a conflict

Perhaps you turned an enemy into an ally or you got rid of them completely what joy you should have

It should fill you with excitement. It should fill you with i'm learning about life. I'm becoming an adult

I'm, not just a baby that reacts to everything that gets emotional