The Psychology of Self-Belief and Success
Evil people never believe that they are evil because our brains
are designed to
trick us into thinking we are always the main characters in our own
stories.
We are the benevolent actors who can do no wrong.
Now, if we decided one day to chase our goals
with that same level of
self-belief, we would accomplish everything
that we've ever put our minds to.
And this is exactly why people that look evil from your perspective in
the world
are oftentimes the most successful and the people that actually win,
because they
don't perceive themselves as evil. They think that they are always right.
They have zero internal friction and a hundred percent conviction in what
they are
doing. They believe themselves the benevolent
actors and the people who are
maintaining order and justice in their specific world.
And if you want to win in life, you need to adopt a lot of the same
principles
because you can't always be the good guy who asks himself, "What are the
consequences? What if this happens?" Then you feel friction,
and then you fail.
And most people in life fail and lose because they sit around waiting
for
permission to be great at something, and then wait around so long that the
opportunity passes before they've even had a chance to try.
The universe will reward certainty and conviction.
It will not reward hesitation.
And so you need to figure out how you in your own life can turn yourself into an
evil person who is convicted enough to win.
And I don't mean evil in the way that you think.
I mean evil in the way that you are the main character
and everybody else is living
a life according to you. When you operate from
that level of confidence, people
automatically assume that you know what you're doing, and
when you stop doubting
yourself, other people will also stop doubting you
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