Understanding Female Anatomy and Pleasure

This is where most people make a mistake. They assume that this is a vagina.

Yeah.

But the vagina is not this.

Okay.

The vagina is this,

the O where the penis goes into.

That's just the vagina.

That's the vagina. Everything outside of here is the vulva.

It's very important for me that, um, body parts are named correctly so that we

don't mis- We don't ... Because when we call everything here the vagina,

we forget

the clitoris, right?

Mm.

And the clitoris is the powerhouse for women's pleasure.

Okay.

It is homologous to the penis. The clitoris and the penis, they

are very similar.

Like, this ... The clitoris is bigger than this small thing here.

It goes, extends deep inside.

Yeah.

Right? It has legs. The way you have balls down there-

Okay

... the, the ... And you have, like, a root. There's a shaft.

The penis has the head-

Mm-hmm

... the shaft, the balls.

Okay.

The clitoris has the head. This is the head that you're seeing here.

Yeah.

Only that our own is small. Your, the penis head is bigger.

Okay.

Then we have the shaft.

Mm-hmm.

It's inside.

Yeah.

Right? It's inside. We can't see that part here, but it is there,

and it extends

even into the vagina. I would liken the vagina to the

balls of a man. Do you get what I'm trying to say?

Yeah, I get you.

So it's like expecting that when you just suck and lick a man's balls,

he's going

to come.

He'll ... Yeah.

It's the same way most men expect that when they just jack hammer

or they just, you

know, thrust and thrust and thrust for 30 minutes-

It's the same

... like they say, "Cum."

Yeah.

The man should just be shaking. And some women are very good at faking the

orgasms.

A lot of women, I think over 50%, have faked-

Yeah, true

... an orgasm at least once, according to s- statistics.

So yeah, so this is the powerhouse.

So if you want a man to come, of course, you focus on the penis, yeah?

Yeah.

If you want a woman to come, most times ...

'Cause women are, like I said, anatomical differences, yeah?

It's the focus on the clitoris.

Yeah.

This is the powerhouse.

How do you focus on it?

Okay, so I'm already f- I'm focusing on it now. See,

I'm touching it.

Okay.

So the clitoris is very sensitive.

So first of all, make sure that you're not touching it with dry

hands.

Okay.

Right? It will cause friction, and it can be painful.

So you want to make sure that your hands are lubricated.

You can, you can pleasure the clitoris through four

ways.

Okay.

The first one is with your hands, like I'm doing now.

Okay.

See, I'm rubbing it in a circular motion.

Okay.

You can rub it from side to side.

Side.

There's also the peace sign, where you go like this.

Okay.

It can feel very good. Some women prefer the tapping motion.

My fingers-

Yeah

... tap. Just gently tap on it.

So those are the four ways?

No, that's one, one-

Oh, that's just one way.

One, one way.

Oh, wow.

I was talking about there are four ways. You can use your mouth to do that.

Okay.

So you can use the hand, right, the fingers rather.

With those four methods.

Those four methods. But now you can also use your mouth,

oral sex.

Okay.

You can suck it. You can use your tongues to circle around

it.

Okay.

You know, you can use it also to go side by side.

You can use the flap of your tongue, like, not just the tip now, the

flap of your tongue-

Yeah

... to, like, you know, tap it.

Okay.

Do you get what I'm trying to say?

Yeah.

You can suck it. Some women prefer ...

Some even, some women even like when you use a bit of ice cubes.

Some men-

Okay

... you know, they will call it temperature play.

You know, you bring your ice cubes and you just-

Okay

... um, use it. That sensation can be very nice.

Okay.

Right? But then,

so that's ... And then you can also use toys. Yes,

toys is the third method.

And then you can also use the penis.

You'd ask me how. Usually the penis goes here, yeah?

Yeah.

But you can also use the penis. You can just use the head of the penis to

just ...

It's like dry humping in a sense. I don't know if you're familiar with the

word.

I am.

Yeah, so dry humping, where you just use the penis to just rub

the clitoris can

feel very, very, very good.

Okay.

Yeah, so but then when I say focus on the clitoris,

I don't mean ignore the vagina,

right? Although according to, um, research and anatomically, the

clitoris has more nerve endings than the vagina.

Yeah.

The vagina is not as sensitive as most people think.

Okay.

Right? I don't, I did not say it cannot feel good.

Don't get me wrong.

I'm not saying that people should not have penetrative sex anymore.

Yeah.

It can feel good. So many women love penetrative sex.

But I'm just saying in terms of nerve distribution and sensitivity-

Yeah

... the clitoris has more sensitivity than

inside the vagina,

right? The clitoris has over 10,000 nerve

endings.

Mm.

The penis has about 5,000, so that's like times two.

The clitoris has times two of the penis.

So more women should be coming anatomically because we have more nerve

endings.

Yeah.

But then unfortunately, because most people just focus on just

thrusting and

thrusting and thrusting, right? And then there's a part inside the vagina

we call

the G-spot.

Yeah.

So most people think that the most, the more deep a man goes,

the more sensitive or

the more pleasure a woman gets, but the most sensitive part of the vagina

is not

deep inside. It's at the entrance-

Hmm

... like two inches in.

Okay.

Right? We call it the G-spot or the G area, right?

It's on the upper wall of the vagina. So imagine a woman is lying down.

You're going in, and you're not just going in with straight

like this.

You are-

You're going on the upper wall.

Okay.

So that's, like, the most sensitive part of a woman's

vagina.

It's not even deep inside. It's about two inches in.

Mm-hmm.

We call it the G-spot or the G area.

Okay.

Right? And the more you stimulate a woman

externally, the more you're able to

stimulate her internally.

Yeah.

Because the G-spot is easier to find when the woman is already aroused.

I always tell men, "Don't go in until she's begging you to."

Like, do everything

else and let her be the one to be pushing you to go in.

Yeah.

Yeah, that's, that's, that's when you know it's time to go in.

Yeah.

Right? It's not by your calculations.

It's when the woman says, "Go in." Do you get?

So that's where communication even comes in.

That's where communication comes in.

So that's, that's, that's mostly how to pleasure the

clitoris.