Discussion on Masculinity in Hollywood

But when you give up your manhood,

I've never seen somebody recover from it.

That was all the people that went to the puffy parties.

That was all the people that did all those things thinking

that there was never

gonna be a consequence for what they were doing.

Got punked out and pimped out by, by some over greater desire.

You know, you shouldn't have a greater desire than

being a man.

So I, I believe that's a big problem with a lot

of the

actors out there because they get fluid, and next thing you know, once

go fluid, you-- it's gone. You don't have any foundation to

pull yourself back from, so maintain your man card no

matter what.

Man, I mean, y- you know, one of the things you're seeing of--

you went to a whole

different place, um-

Sorry.

No, no. I, I'm, I, I get it. So you see some guys struggling with that.

You see Bieber struggling with that.

You see some-

Mm-hmm

... of these guys struggling with that.

They can't get it out of their head.

They can't get it out of their head, the things that they did.

No matter how they did it, whether they were drunk or high

or whatever, you gave up

your man card.

You need therapy,

and that's the thing that hurts them the most,

and so they end up on

drugs, end up every way to try and get rid of any

principles there are, and that's what the business does.

And the women that, that trade their bodies to go

and get the role, they get

to the point where they have their Oscar, they have their money, but they don't

have their dream. They don't have the soul

that they started with.

So it's like achieving don't mean anything.

If I get all the Nobel Prizes from doing all of this, but in the process,

I have to trade out all of my integrity to do it so that they

can stay in place, what benefit is that if I lose my integrity?

You gotta go in as a principle, and what we were brought in here as men.

We produce fifteen hundred sperm per heartbeat for a reason, because the

aggression is necessary. You don't trade that in no

matter what.

Uh, did, did you ever have the opportunity where

you got invited and you said no to

it?

Hell yeah.

What was the consequences-

Hell yeah

... when you said no?

I mean, Puffy invited me w-- for, for weeks asking me to come and

teach him how to, you know-- Wanted me to be his acting coach for a

while.

Go there, and he's sitting around just looking.

I'm like, "Okay. What's the material you wanna work on?"

He's just looking at me.

Then next thing you know, "Okay. Hey, will, will you, um, will you help me?

Um, I wanna hear your music." So I come over

there, and I play the music, and he's

sitting there just looking at me, like waiting.

Okay.

So then my assistant was like, "You know, he wants to hang out with you next week."

And I was like, "For what?" He's like, "I think he's trying to fuck you."

That's what my assistant said, and I was like, "Oh,

okay. Now I get it." So now no more

communication.

Now you know to, to be hands-off with somebody.

A number of producers coming to make the approach, and you threaten

to punch them in the mouth or threaten to knock their head off for t-

talking to

you like or looking at you like you're a woman.

You know, when you approach a real man about his

masculinity, you're gonna

get a real reaction back. It's a difference when a guy walks in a

room and when a man walks into a room, and a man don't t- take

the same things that a guy will accept.

So always be the man in the room, and that's always been my whole

thing and have lost businesses because I don't, I don't

bend over in that way. I don't compromise. I don't play gay roles.

I don't kiss a man. I don't do that shit because the man card

means everything.