Debate on Control and Expectations in Black Relationships

Black women have a superiority

complex and a craving for

power when it comes to Black men.

Yeah, I would agree.

I don't think they like Black men, I think

they want to control Black men.

I think they want to be the

man in the relationship,

but act like they're the lady

when they're not.

Because look at what happens when

the men have control over the women.

They arrange marriages with

women that don't want them,

they beat on the women when

they don't, when they don't do what they say,

and this is across the globe, like-

What are you talking about?

What do you mean? Women in other

countries, women in other-

No, I'm talking

about Black men in America.

We, as Black women in America,

don't even like Black men.

We want to, we want to control Black

men. We want the power over Black men.

We wanna say, "I have

a Black man." We wanna say,

"I have a husband," but we don't

move as wives.

Okay.

We're so busy proving,

"I don't need this,

I don't need that.

Men are worthless.

What do they bring? I don't need a man."

Yeah.

"Oh, my God, only thing I need

him for is to create kids."

Because they saw their granddaddy cheating on their grandmamma and the grandmamma

stayed. They seen their

mama probably get beat by

their husband, by their dad or

their stepdad.

How many, how many, how many

of these people did that?

You think that's a majority?

You'd be surprised.

I don't.

Okay.

I think it happens.

All right.

I absolutely think that that happens.

I do not think that that's the majority.

It just depends on what you're exposed to though.

A lot of-

Honestly, the majority, if

you even think about Black people

period, they didn't

have dads in the house.

It-

So they didn't see no man beating-

You're sort of ref- kind of proving my point

... beating, beating the mom.

You're kinda, you're kinda proving my point so what

No, I'm not proving your point.

No, I'm not proving your point.

Yeah.

My point is that how is it that

women expect a man to be perfect?

They expect him... But they're raising the men

that they don't even like.

I don't think women expect men to be perfect.

When have you ever heard a woman say-

Women definitely expect men to be perfect.

When e-

They have a lot of expectations,

but not, they're not...

Why, why is your mouth agape like this?

As long as he's six feet,

six figures, six inches, six-pack,

they'll start letting

some things go.

That's not perfection, bro.

Like, what am I talking about?

Bro, get outta here.

That's just the beginning.

Y'all are delusional.

But then you're married with an

allowance and you start saying, "But he doesn't

plan dates."

It's crazy work.

Shut up.

It's, if you sit here and you

literally think about how

women are never satisfied,

and the saddest part about it is

you've reduced the

Black man to only what he can do for me