Why She Wants the Man to Plan the First Date

I'ma let you ask the question 'cause you are the initiator,

and I'll—I'll follow that. Okay.

So what does your initial first date look like with a man?

My initial first date is

asking him what—where he wants to bring me.

And day, time,

is he a planner?

So I will know kind of where...

...he's at and what he has in store and what type of

life I would be walking into.

So my initial first date would be up

to the man.

I would not want to be the one

planning that.

Yeah, okay. Well, I wasn't saying like planning, like

what type of stuff are you—would you like to do on a first date as far as...

...are you into... I want to do what he wants to do. Oh, I like that. Okay. Yeah.

'Cause I'm—I'm there to learn him.

And I'm there to know him.

But he gotta learn you too, though.

And he'll learn me when I walk into his world.

Okay. Goddamn.

But walk into my world first,

I'm not providing a world for you. So...

...my world really doesn't matter. Yeah.

It matters to the extent of what—what have I cultivated? Yeah.

Have I nurtured my world?

Where's—where can my world take him, right,

when I enter his world.

So that's why I won't present the

preconceived notion of what I want to do. Because he might show me something new.

And now I just limited myself...

...to what I'm already exposed to,

and I never gave him a chance to step me

into his world.

So... Damn. Okay.

Can we bring her up here or what?