Overcoming Dating Rejection by Staying Confident
So you have to be the guy who goes up to a girl in a bar, "Excuse me, you are
beautiful." And she says, "Fuck off, you're short and ugly."
"Thank you very much for your time." Go up to another
girl, "Excuse me, you are beautiful." And her and her friends laugh in your
face.
Now, most men after this happen, they go back to their friends and they go,
"I'm not good with girls. Girls reject me."
And they take those losses
and they make it their personality,
and they stop going up to girls in general,
and they lose.
Whereas winners will go, after going up to those two girls,
will go back to their
friends and say, "They wanted me, but you know,
I'm busy, they're busy."
And people will be like, "No, she rejected you." "Nah.
Nope.
She wants me."
And then the next girl will come in, and you'll go up to her and say,
"Excuse me."
And she'll say, "Fuck off." And you'll walk back to your friends
and say, "She
wants me too. No girl doesn't want me.
All the girls want me."
And your friends will be like, "What's wrong with you?
You're delusional."
And you'll go up to 50 girls, and guess what will happen
when you go up to the 51st
girl? You'll bag a 10, a baddie,
and all of a sudden you're winning.
And people are sitting there going, "Whoa,
the losses don't affect him. My losses are constraining my
worldview. The parameters from which I operate within are all of
my losses throughout my life. This guy doesn't care when things
happen to him. He just ignores it, pretends it didn't happen,
which is super annoying because I keep trying to remind him it happened and he
keeps denying it, denying reality, and keeps
trying anyway. And eventually, look, he's secured a baddie.
He's pulled it off. I don't have a baddie. I'm thinking about my losses.
He forgot about his losses instantly, and now he's got a baddie.
How did he do that?"
And then they hate you, and then they get annoyed.
That's basically just what I do.
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