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Maybe it's time to stop asking kids "how was school today" as there are seven

much more powerful questions that flip the script and spark real conversation,

not to mention build character in the child.

This according to psychologist and author Amy Morin.

So, what are they? Number one: What was the best part of your day?

You help your child's brain scan for positives, training them toward gratitude

and optimism. On the other end we don't want to sweep problems under the rug,

so number two is: What mistake did you learn from today?

Then you help normalize failure. You teach them that mistakes aren't shameful;

they're teachers in disguise. Number three: Who were you proud of today?

Suddenly your kid starts looking for what's good in others.

You grow empathy by the question alone.

Number four: What's one thing you could have made better today?

Not a complaint, an opening. You give them space to problem solve, to name

what's missing without spiraling into negativity.

Number five: Who did you help today?

This one rewires their focus. When you ask this regularly, kindness becomes

a reflex. Number six: What was the most interesting thing you learned today?

Grades aside, you fuel curiosity. The moment they see your eyes light up, they

learn that learning itself is cool.

And number seven: What's something new you want to try?

The courage question. It pushes them toward creativity, bravery, and growth.

No perfection required. So if you see what's happening here, you shift from

interrogating to inviting. You move from report card talk to soul talk.

And in doing so you build a bridge, not just to your kid's day, but to their

world. We're reminded that real parenting isn't about control, it's about connection.

When you start asking these questions, you're helping your child develop emotional

awareness, empathy, and resilience.

All while deepening your bond. The secret isn't fancy psychology.

It's curiosity. Your curiosity. So next time maybe skip the "how was school"

and try one of these. Watch your child pause, think, and maybe even smile.

That's the moment you start raising a kid who's not just successful, but mentally

strong. Wishing you peace, my friend.