Family Conflict and Restraining Order Discussion

So

is it in connection to just what's going on with your ex-

Yes

... or with you and your mom? Like-

No, my mom has been harassing me.

But why, why is she harassing you? Is it that-

Because my ex was spreading lies about me, and she took his side, and now she's

regretting it because all of his lies are coming out.

Okay. What lies have been coming out?

And they are coming... I'm not getting into this at all.

They've been lies, and I'm not getting into this.

That's literally it.

That's it.

Make your determination based off of that

Okay. Well, w- I mean, we have to do that because you're not telling us what's

going on.

This is incredibly frustrating for me.

I understand.

So you can't get police reports, I can't grab them

and give them to you guys?

Sure. Any kind of reports that you want to share with us,

that'd be fine.

Okay.

Do you want to get them?

No, I will do it later.

Well, no, we need to do it right now.

Why?

Because we're here.

Because we're here. We have to do it at this point.

This is the time that we're doing the assessment.

Yeah.

We wanna hear your side. We wanna really know what's going on.

I understand-

My side is that my ex is a manipulative liar

who tried to harm me a couple weeks ago when I was breaking up with him.

Who tried to harm me. I'll be right back guys.

I'm sorry.

This is so frustrating.

He tried to harm me a couple weeks ago when I broke up with him.

That's when the police came the first time .

Since then, he's told my family

crazy lies about me, that I'm having a mental breakdown.

I sent it, I think, in to you, the video-

Yeah

... of him sta- chasing me down the driveway saying he's

gonna force me to have a

mental health evaluation. That was the start.

He's been lying to everyone, sending them texts that aren't true,

and I've proven

time and time again that they aren't true.

DSS has already come out here and cleared me.

The police have been out here multiple times and cleared me.

He's doing this, spiraling my family, and then they start harassing me, so I

cut them all off. They tried coming here-

And that happened like this week?

What?

That happened this week?

No, that happened like two and a half weeks ago.

My dad came here in his truck, banging on my door,

the day before my mom did with

my brother. I told them to leave me alone. They didn't listen.

Had the police come out, and they told my dad to leave.

I didn't call my mom.

Then my mom sent me a harassing text filled with his lies,

and I blocked her, and I blocked all of them till...

Well, no.

I blocked them, and then I did text my ex because he kept

texting

me. I'm trying to file a restraining order on

him.

My mom I texted because she sent me a horrible email, and I just

texted her once. And then my dad I have not texted.

Where does your dad live?

He lives in this area?

Yes.

Okay. So, uh, have you ever had problems like this

before with mom and dad-

Nope

... or is this all new connection to this?

This is very new. Very new.

Sorry you're going through all this.

Thank you.

Have you ha- ever had any type of mental health

diagnosis?

I, um... Can you, can we, she, can she get to the kids?

'Cause this is like-

Thank you.

Yeah.

The, the screaming kids.

I understand. I wanted-

They need, they need the kids

... to leave the kids alone.

Yeah. They need attention.

They do, and I'm clearly not crazy.

And no, I've never had any mental health issues.

He's claiming that a panic attack I had back in December when we were together, I

had a panic attack because my ex killed himself and I was not having a good time.

And he screamed at me and abandoned me and went to the couch,

and now he's turning that into a mental health crisis

that I had.

Okay. Never diagnosed with post-traumatic

stress?

No. Well

. And I have my daughter Harlow. A year and a half old.

Do you wanna check on them really quick?

Yes.

She's probably just crying because

she, she needs to see me. It's okay.

It's

okay.

It's okay, baby.

Hi, little lady.

Um, I was on

for like two weeks and then I got off it and I was fine.

And that was h- how long ago was that?

A year and a half.

When you first had the baby maybe is when it was?

Yes.

Okay. So no, like, therapist, no psychiatrist?

No.

Ever hospitalized?

No.

Okay. So

right now you're kind of getting ready to do a restraining order against-

Yes, on my ex.

On the ex.

My family's not bothering me, but hell, my mom sent the cops on me yesterday-

She did what?

... claiming that I'm the Ni- Nyx, the goddess of night.

Wow.

Yes. That, that's, will be in your police reports.

Yeah.

She sent police to my house yesterday saying that I'm Nyx, the goddess of night.