Dating Advice and Relationship Dynamics

I think that if you want me, you come get me.

You should never have to fight for someone to love you.

Mm-hmm.

That's what you don't compromise.

I think so many want, women wanna feel loved because that's who

we are, because

we have so much love to give, and we wanna feel that back.

But I think a man is gonna show you his true colors if you just

sit back and let them, let them chase you, let them put in the work.

If he likes you, you're gonna know it.

Yeah.

If he wants you, he's gonna chase you.

If he wants to be with you forever, he's gonna be with you forever.

It's that simple.

Amen.

I did not chase Aaron.

Mm-hmm.

I didn't. I knew he was one of the most beautiful men I'd ever

seen in my life, and

Mr. GQ and new NFL rookie, and I wasn't playing games.

I just-

Right

... I just wanted t- to be sure, and I, I...

that, that he was in this. I think women should always have the upper

hand.

Mm-hmm.

And we should be courted. I'm maybe very old school.

I'm... You're talking to the right-

But I-

... the right person here

... never the person to text first, never the person to call first.

Mm-hmm.

If you want me, you come get me.

I love it.

And you're lucky to earn me.

Mm-hmm.

Because I have a lot of love to give, and if you earn that love, you will just

feel so intoxicated by the love that I'm giving, but you better-

Yeah, listen to this advice at your own peril,

dog, especially if you a man.

Like, fuck what the men's podcasts are telling you.

Fuck what the women's podcasts are telling you. Use your common sense.

Like, we in 2026. We not in the '90s, the '70s,

'50s, '40s, or '20s, nigga. We talkin' about 2026 women.

You can look around and ask yourself, "Where has chasing gotten any man in

this motherfucker?"

What I can tell you right now is if you have to chase a woman in

2026, you're being settled for. This isn't

100 years ago where a woman used to be excited that a man would even be

interested enough to give her attention.

During that time, they used to tell you shit like, "Yeah,

if you like a woman,

write her a poem." Mm-hmm. Do that shit today, your ass gonna be a

TikTok story.

Back then, they used to say shit like, "Yeah,

make sure you buy her flowers on the

first date." Yeah, right. Do that shit today,

and the nigga she really fucking with

gonna be at her crib like, "Yeah.

Damn, baby, these some nice ass flowers he bought you.

He's such a nice guy."

Attention is plentiful right now, so if you ain't the man she's

going to sleep dreaming about,

then you're being settled for,

and if you are being settled for, my boy,

she's about to do your ass dirty in that courtroom, the same way she about

to do old boy dirty in that courtroom, for real.

And you'll know it soon as she start making excuses as to why she don't

wanna have sex. You're cooked. I know so

many niggas

who spent a lot of time making fun of the podcast bros,

talking shit, calling niggas incels, talking about how they hate

women, and they wasn't paying attention to they

own situation.

Now you gotta suffer in silence 'cause you can't come out publicly and be like,

"Yeah, them niggas was right."

Any OG will always tell you never chase.

Get your bag together, get your body right, and the women will

come.

So chasing in 2026 is crazy