Discussion on Hot Husband Fetish

Okay, you call this the hot husband fetish.

Yes.

Which is essentially when you want your partner to have sexual

experiences with

other people outside of the relationship.

Yeah.

So when did this start for you, Nikki? Let's go back.

This started with my, my boyf- when I was 29, 'cause I really hadn't had

a boyfriend before then.

Cute.

He would tell me about, um

... Like, I would always ask him about, like, past hookups and girlfriends and how

they got together. Like, I always like the begin- Like,

how did you guys first know

you liked each other? Like, I love that, like, our legs were touching under a table

and neither of us moved our leg. Or so, like, stuff like that, I would be like .

So, like, I don't know, it would make me, like, horny to like think about him doing

that with other girls. And then I would ...

So I'd ask about all of his, like, girlfriends or anyone he had hooked up

with,

like, all the details about it, and I would really be like a foreplay for

me.

Like, I would get, like, revved up talking about it.

And then it reached a point where he was out of stories.

Like, he had gone through all of them, and I was like ...

And then it's almost like he was telling the same ones, and I was like,

"I know

this one." So it wasn't as exciting anymore, 'cause I

was getting the same stuff,

so I was like,

"I know this is..." I, like, I had never heard of anything like this.

I felt so weird, but I was like, "I think I need you to, like,

get some more

stories."

You need new material, Chris.

Yeah. I was like, "I n- I need you to, like,

go out there and just do ... Just have a flirty moment with someone."

Like,

anything where I can feel like ... Uh, maybe it's my competitive nature.

I was gonna say.

I'm like, I want a guy who other girls want.

Like, I, I like something that is like, you know, you want a handbag that other

girls are like, "Oh, my God, I'm dying to get that."

That's relatable.

Like, in that sense.

That is relatable.

Yeah.

Like, I, like, I have experienced that, like, masochism to a

certain degree, where I'd be like, "Tell me about every ex.

Tell me about all the things." Like, that part of the beginning of the

relationship-

Were you pulling up for it, or were you like,

"I wanna know because I hate this

girl"?

No, it definitely, like, made me be, like, "Okay, now I'm gonna, like, fuck you 10

times better tonight."

Yes, yes. Okay, yes.

But, but then, but then-

It's like showing their value, that they are valued by other women.

Yes.

'Cause I respect women

and women's opinions. I do.

This all comes back to hating men

Yeah.

This whole thing is, like, men are disgusting and they need to get their

boners

fixed immediately.

I want... Exactly.

And I don't really wanna fix your boner, but I love women.

I want my boyfriend to fuck other women 'cause I just love women so much .

I'm such a feminist