Discussion on Ghosting and Consent

If you meet a man and that man

opens you up and makes you feel comfortable and makes you

feel safe enough to engage with him

sexually, and then you engage with him sexually,

and then that

man ghosts you, that man is a rapist.

That man is a rapist. Let's stop normalizing men

that ghost. He's not ghosting you because he has his

own

abandonment issues and attachment issues and avoidant

issues. He's a motherfucking rapist,

and we should rage.

We should stop this, and we stop it by speaking up

about it because this is one of the oldest tricks in the books.

The manipulation tactic to make a woman feel

vulnerable and safe and to open her up

just for you to ghost? You've earned

the title with a badge of honor, with a

badge of disgust. And if you are a woman and

you have been a victim to this scenario that I'm sharing with you

right now, it's not your fault. What he made you

feel is emotional and psychological manipulation.

He showed you an aspect and a part that you thought was

real, and it's okay, baby girl. It's okay,

queen. We learn through our hurt.

We learn through our pain, and now you know

how to set stronger boundaries and how to

demand

actions

way, way before words and more than

words. Things like this happen on a

daily with women, and it's not the woman's fault.

It's the man's fault for lying, for manipulating,

for ghosting, for putting on an act and an image

that is fully not him. Let's stop

normalizing ghosting

and using the correct terminology

that the ghosters are rapists. They're not ghosters