Како се супротставити насилницима: говор тела, смиреност и границе
3 min Machine translated Life & society
Prvo. Sve počinje tvojim očima. Nikad ne zuri, ali nemoj ni prebrzo da skreneš pogled.
Moć je ravnoteža. Zapamti ove reči. Oči nisu samo kapije tvoje duše, one su i oružje i pokazatelj tvoje snage.
Drugo, govor tvog tela određuje da li ćeš zadobiti poštovanje.
Hodaj uspravno, gledaj pravo, isprsi se.
Zamisli nevidljivu nit pričvršćenu za teme, koja te stalno vuče nagore, pa ti se brada spušta.
Samo nadmeni ljudi drže bradu podignutu, ali njih najbrže udare i onesveste.
Treće, kad ovladaš govorom tela, ovladaćeš i svojim načinom razmišljanja.
Uvek počni sa: „Meni je dobro, tebi je dobro.“ Od početka nastupi saradnički prema svima.
Postavi jasne granice. Nasilnici vole da ispituju granice.
Ako se neko ponaša prema tebi kao prema đubretu, uzvrati brzo, kao upozorenje, a zatim ponovo ponudi saradnju.
„Dobro sam, dobro si i ti,“ osim ako se ne dokaže suprotno.
Ovo je najviši nivo teorije igara koji će te daleko odvesti u životu, bilo da si u vrtiću, u zatvoru ili u upravnom odboru.
Broj četiri, nikad ne reaguj emotivno. Zlostavljači nastoje da izazovu bes ili strah.
Ostani smiren. Koristi logiku i humor, i ne daj zlostavljačima nikakvu emotivnu reakciju koju traže.
Tvoja smirenost je tvoj štit, a tvoja smirenost je tvoj mač.
Broj pet, sklapaj saveze. Sve počinje time da uzvratiš dobrotu.
Usluga će ti pomoći da uspostaviš vezu. Veza će prerasti u savez.
Savez čak može da preraste u prijateljstvo.
Zlostavljačima je teško kad imaš dobre veze i koristan si.
Zato, broj šest, Održavaj svoje veštine oštrim.
Šta god da ti je potrebno u tvojoj oblasti, vežbaj svakog dana.
Verbalna dovitljivost, strateško razmišljanje ili samoodbrana.
Svakog dana oštri svoj mač. Nasilnici izbegavaju ljude koji imaju stvarne veštine, ali se time ne hvali.
I na kraju, naravno, broj sedam. Tvoj najoštriji mač je ćutanje, i protiv nasilnika.
Kad se suočiš s nasilnikom, ćutanje uz snažan kontakt očima stvoriće moćan štit ako ti je držanje uspravno i snažno.
Ćutanje je tvoj gospodar, tvoj zaštitnik i tvoja harizma.
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Original transcript (English)
Number one. Everything starts with your eyes.
Never stare, but also never too quickly look away.
Power is balance. Remember these words. Your eyes are not just the gates of your soul, they are also a weapon and an indicator of how strong you are.
Number two, your body language will determine if you will receive respect.
Walk tall, eyes straight, chest to the front.
Imagine an invisible thread attached to the crown of your head, always pulling you up, making your chin go down.
Only arrogant people have their chin up, but they will get punched and knocked out the quickest.
Number three, after mastering body language, you master mindset.
Always start out with, "I'm okay, you're okay."
Start out cooperative with everyone. Set clear boundaries.
Bullies like to test limits. If someone treats you like shit, strike back swiftly as a warning and then offer cooperation again.
"I'm okay, you're okay," unless proven differently.
This is the highest level of game theory that will bring you far in life, no matter if you are in kindergarten, in prison, or in a boardroom.
Number four, never react emotionally. Bullies strive on provoking anger or fear.
Keep calm. Use logic and humor, and give the bullies no emotional reaction they seek.
Your calm is your shield, and your calm is your sword.
Number five, form alliances. Everything starts with paying it forward.
A favor will grow you a connection. A connection will become an alliance.
An alliance can even become a friendship.
Bullies have a tough time when you are well-connected and useful.
That's why number six, keep your skills sharp.
Whatever is needed in your area, practice every day.
Verbal wit, strategic thinking, or self-defense.
Every day, sharpen your sword. Bullies avoid people who have real competence, but don't brag about it.
And finally, of course, number seven. Your sharpest sword is silence, also against bullies.
When dealing with a bully, silence combined with strong eye contact will create a powerful shield if your body language is tall and strong.
Silence is your master, your protector, and your charisma.
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