3 Ways to Tell If Someone Secretly Dislikes You
2 min Life & society
2 min Life & society
Okay, I live by this. So if you suspect that somebody doesn't like you deep down or doesn't have your best interest at heart and you wanna kind of test them, you can.
And you can do it one of three ways. The first... The third one's my favorite way, but the first way is tell them something about your life, like something that happened that's good, okay?
And if they are giving you, like, c- the look of contempt, the look of jealousy or envy, they don't like you.
And then you tell them something that happened that's bad or something that... An opportunity you didn't get, and if all of a sudden they're overly interested, they have, like, a sparkle in their eye, they're like, "Wait, what?" Like, "What happened?" Like,
they don't like you, and they're preying on your downfall.
Okay, number two, microexpressions. So if you're in a group of people, I want you to kind of notice how they look at you when you're not looking at them, and their microexpressions of, like, contempt is what you're looking for.
Like, you need to have the discernment of kind of, like, seeing them. Like, and if they look at you, like, stank face, they don't like you.
And then number three, this one's my favorite because you can pretty much do it anytime.
I want you to give this person a minor inconvenience.
Like, do something on purpose, but it's, like, on accident.
Like, "Oh, I'm so sorry." Like, blah, blah, blah, and notice how they react.
This is more of a test because if they react positively and, like, make excuses for you...
Like, when you like someone, you'll make excuses for them.
Like, "Oh, they were probably running late," or, "Oh, they were probably blah, blah."
Versus if they don't like you, they're going to, like, attach to that inconvenience that you've caused them and, like, drill you with it and, like, make you feel like shit or make you look like shit in front of a bunch of people.
But yeah, I just... I built my career off of psychology and learning how to communicate with people, so this stuff's fun to me.
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