What Is Charisma? Explaining It to an Eight-Year-Old

Is, is my daughter asked me, she heard one of my YouTube videos, and she said, "What is charisma?"

She asked me that, and I was like, "Ooh." Like she's eight.

I said, "Charisma or rizz or aura is someone that you really wanna be around.

It's when they walk into a room, you wanna go over and talk to them, you wanna sit near them, you wanna listen to them, you wanna work with them, you wanna play with them." And I said, "Do you know anyone like that?"

And she goes, "Oh, yes." And she named, so interesting, she named two kids in her class that I had already identified as very charismatic.

Like I knew-- I, in my mind, I knew who the charismatic kids were in her class.

I had, I had popped them, right? I, I saw them.

They're the kids that you really wanted to be around.

Um, they, they have this aura about them, and she named those exact two kids.

So I think that that definition works. It's someone that we are drawn to verbally, physically.

I think also some of it is can be physical, and there's something hormonal there as well, um, but it's someone we're drawn to.

Okay, so based on the twenty years of research you've done- Yes ... if you were trying to teach